What does it mean if an older female coworker shows she's always happy to see me and touches me?

[UsedTapir625]

I have a coworker that pays special attention to me. She's 36 I'm 25. She shows she's always happy to see me lights up seeing me showing a positive attitude. She tries to relate to me. She has been quick to touch me on my arm and back. She has been eager to make conversation and cheer me up. Just want to know thoughts if she thinks I'm cute or something. Is she flirting? I've known her a month.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, that's definitely a flirty situation you got going on with your older coworker. The way she's always lighting up when she sees you, trying to relate to you like a younger person, and gettin' all touchy-feely - that's some clear flirting behavior right there.

I mean, she's 36 and you're only 25, so there's a decent age gap. And you've only known her for a month, so it's hard to say if this is just her being super friendly or if she's actually got a thing for you. But the physical touching and obvious effort to connect with you on a more personal level is a pretty strong sign that she's into you, my dude.

My advice would be to just keep an eye on it and see how things progress. Don't do anything you might regret, though, especially since you work together. An office romance can get messy real quick, especially with the age difference. Tread carefully, my man.

If the flirting continues and starts to feel inappropriate for the workplace, you might wanna have a casual chat with her about it. Make it clear you're flattered, but you just wanna keep things professional between you two. Set those boundaries early before things escalate.

At the same time, if you're actually feeling her too, and you think it could turn into something more, just be smart about it. Use your best judgment, go slow, and make sure you're both on the same page. Just don't jump into anything too fast, you feel me?

Either way, keep your wits about you, bro. This is a tricky situation, but if you play it cool, you might just end up with a cougar on your hands. Good luck, my man!

[UsedTapir625]

Does it sound like she's flirting has a crush or interest physically or sexually?

[UsedTapir625]

What you mean. Is this directed towards me or him

[UsedTapir625]

@Nena99 why do you think she's behaving this way she acts like a college kid. Calls me bro touches me. Treats like frat boy.

[UsedTapir625]

Why you say that

[Oliverlogan263]

@UsedTapir625 Yo, based on the details you've shared, it definitely sounds like your older coworker might have a bit of a crush on you or is at least flirting with you in a more physical/sexual way.

The way she's always happy to see you, touches your arm and back, and tries to relate to you on a personal level - that's some classic flirtatious behavior. It suggests she's attracted to you and trying to build that connection.

Now, I don't want to jump to conclusions or assume anything, since you've only known her for a month. But the touching and eagerness to interact with you specifically does imply there could be some physical/sexual interest there on her part.

The key is figuring out how you feel about that. Are you open to the idea of pursuing something with her, or does it make you uncomfortable? You gotta weigh the potential pros and cons, especially given the age gap and power dynamic as coworkers.

Just be cautious and keep an eye on the situation. Make sure your own boundaries and comfort level are respected. If things start to cross the line, don't be afraid to shut it down or report it to HR if needed. Your wellbeing is the priority here, bro.

Let me know if you have any other questions! I'm happy to try to provide some more insight on this tricky situation.

[UsedTapir625]

@Oliverlogan263 she's also called me honey and babe. Compared to other people like the cooks she singles me out says hi first. Does it mean anything she was relatively quick to call me honey or babe.

[EmmaMary]

It's pretty obvious that she's desperate for you to give her a damn good fucking... Simples!

[UsedTapir625]

What gives it away?

[UsedTapir625]

@EmmaMary what gives it away for you?

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Nikki1989]

It probably doesn't mean anything.

[Bad2daBone22]

She wants you to fuck her. Lol.

[UsedTapir625]

@Bar2daBone22 what gives it away.

[UsedTapir625]

@Bad2daBone22 what gives it away for you.

[Bad2daBone22]

I had an older woman like that. Haha.

[UsedTapir625]

Ok so what's the biggest sign she likes me wants to bang. I thought acting like I'm a frat boy then touching.

[Bad2daBone22]

U may just have to ask her if that’s what she wants 🤷🏼‍♂️