Why do some guys touch random girls' asses in clubs as a way of saying hi?

[Anonymous]

And does that actually ever work for people?! Quite a few times, I've been in a club, just dancing or walking somewhere. And some random guy that I don't know will touch or pinch my bum, and then look away as though they didn't do anything. I can see how people would use that as an approach if they said hi or made eye contact or something. But, when people pretend they didn't, I don't understand it. Do any of you guys ever do this? Any explanations why? And does this 'method' actually ever pay off? Personally I can't see it working, but then this puts me on the defensive, so wondering if it does for some people

[Flamingo117]

Noooo! That's bad. What I do is gently place my hand on the girl's hips or shoulder and get her attention to me so I can talk or whatever (no tapping on shoulder! That's so bad too).

But generally, it's hard to meet new girls in clubs where the music is so loud.

[Asker]

this should be the way. it would be way more effective as well :P

[sexyasianboi26]

If you get defensive by that then the bar/club is not for you, sorry lol. Its for people who are open to all types of fun.

I get my *ss touched by girls and guys and I don't mind. Plus you really can't talk in bars and clubs these days, music is too loud.

[Asker]

I don't mean defensive as in scared or angry, but it doesn't make me attracted to the guy and I would be less keen to say hi to him myself, especially as these guys don't talk to you themselves :s

[Anonymous]

So annoying. Only works if the guy is like really hot which they never are so I usually just hit them and call them rude.

[martyfellow]

If it weren't for the bouncer, more guys would do this. Given the way girls behave and dress in clubs, touching their behind is the most appropriate way to say hello to them!

[coolguy1989]

They're most likely drunk, and don't realize what they're doing is wrong...don't let it bother you, the chances of you seeing them again, is one in 7 billion

[verylovelyguy]

it might not pay off but there's low risk of serious consequences

[nelsonbakteri]

Well it's a good way to get slapped, but I personally just come up to the girl and introduce myself if I find her attractive I don't grab on their ass, kinda disrespectful, because I wouldn't want anyone to do that to my friends or such

[Anonymous]

Because it works well

[Asker]

Haha seriously? I mean, sure, if the girls drunk I can see it working, but otherwise I've never seen that work for a guy :P

[Opinion Owner]

They get all giggly and happy ;p