Like, have you ever started the conversation? I haven't
Have you ever messaged someone first instead of being messaged on GAG?
What Girls Said 34
Yes, like 2 or 3 times. It's very rare, though. And I mostly do it if I actually have something to talk about or ask.1
Not usually, unless I have something substantial to say. Otherwise I feel like if someone wanted to talk to me then they'd message me first, I don't want to be a bother.0
No, I haven't yet and never will.0
Yes, only once.
Only occasionally when they asked me too.
Otherwise, no, I haven't.0
I don't usually.0
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What Guys Said 22
I have... but very few times. its usually to continue a continue a conversation that was already going on but getting a little private. I get messaged all the time though.. i don't mind.0
Once or twice, but not for the conversation, rather to explain certain things back when I were part of the mod team, and for the privacy as to not shame them.0
Yeah, and it usually starts out to clarify something on a question or take. Or just some doubt about something they said
Most times they answer, and are cool about it.
Sometimes we keep on talking...0
I've done that shit 5 times count, the other 200+ times people have messaged me 1st.0
If somebody makes a very intriguing point I will most likely send them a message to try to learn more. It's certainly possible.0
Yeah couple of times.0
I've been messaged first 100% of the time in the 3+ months I've been on this site :)0
yeah i have0
I've been messaged first but I think i will eventually message someone else first0
Yes, all the time. I rarely get messages from people so I'm usually the one starting conversations0
Yeah. I've done it twice on my old account. It went well but I don't see why it would be a big deal.0
No I'm not that desperate0