Most Helpful Guys
Take it as you want. The purpose of this site is to share and receive advices/observations/experiences indeed but many people happen to make it a chat site and it often escalates to something else. Some people consider this as a dating site too.. hah, and weirdos are everywhere.
Most Helpful Girl
To me it's simply questions and answers, I'm not interested in anything more than that. But I've noticed the same as you have, and this is as good of a place as any to make new connections.