I notice more often then not, that girls seem favored on here
and I'm just curious why?
I'll give an example, see a girl could ask a question like" I'm a
good girl, but the guy I like say's I'm boring. What should I do?"
Then if you were to read the answers they be like this " Oh! Girl,
that guy is loser and user! He's no good, you don't need him. If
can't accept you for you, then he doesn't desereve you!"
Then a guy could ask that same question only his would read"I'm
a good guy, but the girl I like say's I'm boring. What should I do? "
And then if you read the answers to his question, they would
like this " Well, if she say's that you're boring, then you probably
are. And you should find hobbies and things to talk about that
she find's interesting and exciting. I mean nobody wants to date
a guy that's dull as mud!"
Do you see the difference, in those two examples? Thus, why I'm
so very perplexed, I mean what's with the gender favortism? I mean we're all human and we all have feeling, shouldn't we be
treated the same?
I mean I get that girls are: Feninine, emotional and chalked full of
estrogen. And guys are: Masculine, strong and chalked full of
testesterone, but guys deserve to be defended and reasurred just
as much as girls do! Just because, guys aren't has open with their
feelings and emotions. Doesn't mean that they shouldn't be taken
I mean if a woman doesn't have to change herself for a man and
should always just be herself, then a man shouldn't have to change
himself, for a woman and should always just be himself. If woman
gets to hold out for a guy the will love unconditionally, accept her
for her and think she is beautiful inside out and totally amazing.
Then, a guy should get to hold out for a girl that will love him
unconditionally, accept him for him and thinks he's beautiful
inside out and totally amazing! Of course there's more to relationshps, then just that. I mean you have to be compatible,
be equals you know compromise and so on and so fourth, but
you get my drift.
So does anyone agree or disgree with me, on what I said? I
welcome all opinions, but please be respectfully, okay? Thank you
in advance for all comments! : )
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if a guy is complaining about emotional problems in society
he is taught to suck it up and stop being so needy
but it is expected in society that you are supposed to help girls and be a nice guy etc..
i agree with what you said happens
but its better off the way it is because no1 wants to hear a grown man complain about why don't women like me, especially when we have tons of post that he can search for already (actually I don't care about those types of questions anyways and I usually ignore it)
also I'm sure most girls will not be attracted to guys like those since they want someone whos confident0