So I am into this man. We hooked up once and now things are different. He has his days where we talk all day and thin other days where he says nothing. Would I be playing my cards right if I stopped texting him, until he text/ calls me first?
- yes your doing the right thing.Vote A
- no he will just forget about you and move on?Vote B
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If you're the one always texting/calling first, then sure.
I think it's pretty normal to talk some days, and not some other days. Just because you like someone doesn't mean you have to constantly be in communication with them.
I've had women whom I really liked, and would only text/call them once a week or so. Not because I didn't care, but really I had other stuff to do, and if I can't see the person face-to-face, what's the point? And yes I've caught a lot of flak because of that, and it turns out some women thought I was totally uninterested in them, or just reaching out for them because I was feeling lonely, which really wasn't the case.
And guess what? I haven't changed. I still act that way. So don't assume that just because someone doesn't feel the need to be in constant communication with you, that they don't care about you.0