Yes, I’m aware that there are A LOT of takes about this. Am I still going to write mine? Fuck yeah. Let’s begin!
1.) Lookin’ good
Attracting someone ALWAYS starts with looking the part. I don’t care how much someone says “i only care about personality!!”. If you don’t look ok, you’re going to remain single.
Now, there’s genetics that decide a little about how you look. But DO NOT think this has you either set or set back. Also, do NOT bitch about your genetics.
What you SHOULD do:
-be hygienic, shower, brush your teeth, keep your hair neat.
-get your hair cut in a style that SUITS you, don’t try to look like someone you’re not. Ask a good hairstylist what they think you should get, better, ask several hairstylists what you should get.
-dress good. So many guys seem to fail to comprehend this?? I take my best friend (male) out shopping a lot, and when I give him a bit more experimental shit (i.e. Pink/purple colours in a style he’s unfamiliar with) he always gets compliments on it. He calls me his personal stylist now, lol. I don’t get why this seems so difficult to a lot of men? Instead of opting for the easy option, which is walking into one or two stores to get comfortable clothing then wear it for years on end, try to go for the option of browsing a lot of different stores and trying on things! Any man should have at least these items in my opinion:
~a white, black, grey t-shirt
~long sleeve tees
~sweaters, shorts (depending on where you live)
~a proper suit
~a proper jacket (leather is my preference)
Accessorize, too! Get a nice watch or a nice ring. (Or both)
I cannot stress this enough.
-work out. And I don’t say this in a way of “every guy needs to be muscly!!!” Because nah, you do you, but do you healthily! Most women do not like fat or skinny guys, anything inbetween is generally accepted.
2.) The first impression
This seems rather obvious, but when you first meet someone, the impression you leave will be how they remember you. You CAN fix it, for example, people always tell me they thought i was a bitch but i turned out to be pretty nice. Still, it’s easier to make a good first impression.
First, think about what impression you want to leave on people. Do you want to come across as happy? Brooding? Do you know anyone who comes across as this? Try to be that, in your own way.
also, some things ANYONE needs to do:
-stand tall and straight, good posture is important.
-body language makes people view you differently. Closed arms? Not approachable.
-tone of voice. Don’t sound angry.
Ok, so you’ve reeled in a girl with your stunning good looks and nice body posture. What’s next? Not being a d*ck, that’s what!
You CANNOT be racist, homophobic etc.. when looking for a girl (or when just being alive really). It’s just really unattractive.
Other than that, the old and annoying quote “be yourself” still stands. Talk about things with passion and include her in it. For example, you love a movie? Talk about it and ask her if she’s seen it. Engage.
Some traits all women i’ve met find attractive:
-honest & loyal
girls love a guy that takes them places, talks to them, listens to them, a guy that treats them like a frickin’ princess. You’ll get so much in return from her.
Obviously, not all girls are the same though, so not everyone will agree with this. I didn’t write this out of personal likes either (maybe i’ll do a small take on that). But I hope you enjoyed reading this!