It could be a bad thing, but let me present an argument different than what everyone else is saying. Realize first that masturbation is getting off to fantasy. Fantasizing is not wishing for things to actually be that way (being with her). It is possible that he prefers you to her in 95% of all ways, but that she had something that you don't that he likes to fantasize about once in a while. For instance she may have small boobs and you have large. So when he feels "the need" to fantasize about sex with small boobs, he imagines her. Or something similar. It does not mean that he wants her over you. And he uses her image instead of a p*rn star because he was with her and can imagine her a lot more clearly than someone he does not know.
Could he actually prefer her? Possibly, but nothing in what you have said proves that. Talk to him about the "why". He may provide you with insight that will relieve your worries and allow you to not be bothered at all by this.
Thank you!
Glad to be of help. And thank you for MHO :-)
Yes, this sounds like a game he is playing, just tell him that you do things to yourself over one of his Friends and watch his reaction, he most likely stop.
This is a stupid and unfair thing to say to you.
Maybe it's cuz I'm a really jealous person, but HELL YEA that's bad! I don't have a problem with him beating off to a p*rnstar , but ex gf? That's a big no no. Why? Cuz p*rn is just for fantasy. As bad as this sounds, p*rno people are just for pleasure. Kinda like objects. But they agreed to being objectified which is ok. Plus, he most likely doesn't have a history or any emotional attachment to the p*rno chick. But to his ex he does.
Nope. I'm sorry. I'd dump his ass. That's completely disrespectful and I would consider that some form of cheating.
Very bad. Ok maybe if he did it in private once it wouldn't be a big deal. The fact that he TELLS you makes it horrible. He's rubbing your face in it, I bet to make you feel insecure. I dated a guy who did something similar and he was a complete douchebag.
Break up with this guy. You can do better
Relationship 100 percent perfect?
His ex. Girlfriend is his sexual fantasy.
When he's fucking you he's thinking about her.
I would break up with him... that is beyond disrespectful.
How could he even admit that to you? That's the type of secret you take to your grave.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!yeah that is a problem and he is not 100% faithful to you imho.
Yes it is totally bad. It means he thinks that she is better than you.
Many time's this happens and because of x girlfriend many boys forgot their current gf
Yes... It's bad... Get rid of him now!
Yeah. That's bad. Think about it.
Just casually mention how you also fantasize about exes too, should do the trick.
Wow! Wtf? You deserve better than that, that's just outright disrespectful. He is doing it to rub your face in it as it were because he knows he can. Dump him.
Obvious sign that he wants to call it quits with you.
That's bizarre yes.. I couldn't imagine doing anything like that.
DUMP HIM NOW!
Omg, I couldn't put up with that. I'd dump his ass, pretty disrespectful.
Hmm that is a little odd. Would he care if you did the same thing?
well yeah. obviously he's still attracted to her in some way. Leave him and find someone who isn't hung up over their girlfriend!
As a woman who has been in your shoes with her SO before, I can definitely relate. My SO is a person who has Bipolar Disorder. It has been fairly well medicated for our whole 20-yr relationship. That is until about 10 years ago when,
Break up with now like yesterday
That's fucked up
it is normal for guys to do that but he really should keep it to himself. if I were you I wouldn't give him any pic's.
Yes it is if he casually talks about it it means he A. trying to get you jealous or B. doesn't think you are sexually attractive.
YES IT IS BAD. Move on immediately. Because that means he's probably thinking about her while you guys have sex too.
yeah that's a deal breaker hahahahaa
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