If he's sleeping with the 'slut' what is he besides a cheater? Maybe she doesn't know he's married? Seems to me the man is to blame as he's the one who broke the vows. The other woman, although if she knew it was wrong, has no contract with the wife.
Yea im sorry i forgot to mention this, if he is cheating then of course he is guilty and its a 100% his fault even if the other girl know he's married, i was just trying to give an explination to why he wouldn't leave his wife even thou he's cheating on her
What if she's 10 years older than him, ugly and a Hobbit extra? When the mistress is the total opposite!
Maturity, beauty is in the eye of beholder? The rest still holds true that I said. Some guys just like older women.
He told me he originally cheated on his first gf to be with his oh. She in turn threw away her marriage to be with him. He said it was her money he liked. She paid 60 grand off of their first mortgage together. Well anyways, he told me he has cheated multiple times because he wants to try different flavours. I ditched him after this remark and told his wife about his affairs. I just found out today that not only is she still there with him, she let him quit his job and is now supporting him to be a freelance scientific consultant/director. Maybe I'm mad but am I missing something here?
Yeah, my first comment said money.
So guys actually do go with women because of their cash and not because they love them. That's really sad :-(
Some do, just like some women do.
I get the impression that most "cheaters" do it because of sex. Love has little to do with it. He has invested a lot of time (as well as money) with his wife, and possibly has kids, too. He would alienate the kids, have to part with someone he really love (but obviously has little idea of how to show it), and have to pay for this through the nose. So gals, if you become a mistress, you are just the sex-on-the-side, the variety, the blow job the wife won't do, etc., not his future wife.Not all "cheaters" think this way, it might work out for the mistress (but VERY unlikely). And some gals actually want the scenario I described. They got a guy who screws her but does not want a permanent relationship or kids with her. And she gets fun dates and often expensive gifts. Why ruin that by settling down?
He did say he was extremely happy with her! Not surprised really since she does an excellent impression of a carpet
@Asker - He is the one who cheated on her (and apparently still does). And you are the one who helped him for a while. So why the deprecating remarks about the faithful wife?
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