Why do most married men never leave their wives for their mistress?

Because there is a reason he chose her to be his wife for the rest of his life and didn't chose the other slut... I guess-because although we may notice guys mess around with many girls but deep down we know which one is a good girl and which one is just a slut and we would only wanna settle down with a good one. Ofc I don't know what its like in ur case they may be many reasons..
Money, status, he's more emotionally attached to his wife than some woman who let him have sex with her. The woman is the mother of his children?
What if she's 10 years older than him, ugly and a Hobbit extra? When the mistress is the total opposite!
He told me he originally cheated on his first gf to be with his oh. She in turn threw away her marriage to be with him.
He said it was her money he liked. She paid 60 grand off of their first mortgage together.
Well anyways, he told me he has cheated multiple times because he wants to try different flavours. I ditched him after this remark and told his wife about his affairs. I just found out today that not only is she still there with him, she let him quit his job and is now supporting him to be a freelance scientific consultant/director. Maybe I'm mad but am I missing something here?
So guys actually do go with women because of their cash and not because they love them. That's really sad :-(
I get the impression that most "cheaters" do it because of sex. Love has little to do with it. He has invested a lot of time (as well as money) with his wife, and possibly has kids, too. He would alienate the kids, have to part with someone he really love (but obviously has little idea of how to show it), and have to pay for this through the nose. So gals, if you become a mistress, you are just the sex-on-the-side, the variety, the blow job the wife won't do, etc., not his future wife.
Not all "cheaters" think this way, it might work out for the mistress (but VERY unlikely). And some gals actually want the scenario I described. They got a guy who screws her but does not want a permanent relationship or kids with her. And she gets fun dates and often expensive gifts. Why ruin that by settling down?
Because wives are always first there's a reason why they marry them, and also they know if you were capable of a green with cheating he know you will cheat on him too if you ever get together
If she is older then him then maybe he loves her but she Don't want sex no more but he does, And he sees it easier to just go have sex with someone rather then ruin his marriage.
He did say he was extremely happy with her! Not surprised really since she does an excellent impression of a carpet
They want to have their cake and eat it too. Having a mistress suggests a character flaw and selfish regard to life in general.
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There's no incentive to leave a living tax break for some head.
Because they're looking for sex not a relationship.
Selfish, that's why.
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