Please give me insight on "husband touching stripper" (I am desperate)? (Page 2)

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About two weeks after my husband and I married we went on a honeymoon to Vegas. It worked out good because his childhood friend was getting married there as well so the trip served two purposes.  While there he was invited on a bachelor party. We knew the guys planned on going to a strip club in which my hubby did not want to go. I thought the guys were going to think I did not want him to go and since I was the new wife I did not want this reputation so I talked him into going.  After he went we met up, and I do not know how else to explain this, but I instantly knew more than what I was comfortable took place. I questioned him in which he said he just got a public lap dance and then went outside because he was so uncomfortable (I did not believe this).  Once we were back in Canada I said one of the wives messaged me and said their husband told her they seen my husband go into a private room. My husband began to tell me the truth, he touched the strippers butt and boobs (twice).  Needless to say I lost it. It has been 7 months and some days are great and some days aren't. I feel super betrayed. Some days I look at my suitcase and come super close to packing it. I know other couples go through worse (actual cheating) but we were only married two weeks! Also, I am a little bit over weight (size 10-12 jean) and I feel I will never be able to amount to that experience or give him what the stripper gave him because she was obviously smoking hot.  Anyways, I am desperate at this point because I love my husband so much but this is taking such a toll on me. (one last thing, when we were dating for about a year I found out early in the relation he had "sexted" an ex a few times. It was very short but I found out 9 months later when I was using his computer and she popped up. I forgave him and two years later we were married.  I am just worried that lying and this lying means I married someone who is dishonest and I am just fooling myself to think he has changed).

Anonymous · Answer

Try to remember, those girls, are just being paid to not only look good but to dance on men... they don't WANT to do it, they just do it for a paycheck (an easy one)

MlleCake · Answer

You and he need to see a therapist together.

ninjafemme · Answer

divorce him, his trashy to cheat

ChiPaPa · Answer

I'd get an annulment.

Lovelygirl420 · Answer

You need to chill out lady

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