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babe i don't think there's something you can do about it... guys love boobies!!
I think your just unlucky with some of the guys your coming across.
Guys will be guys, and a lot will point out and say things like you mentioned earlier like, "id bang her" and whatever to make themselves seem bigger in front of their mates and stuff like that.
Obviously not all guys are like that, and its only some guys who are just really immature that do that type of thing.
If i were you i would just ignore them, and by not paying attention showing them that whatever they say or say they would do is nothing by ignoring the rubbish they say.
For the guys that just stare, they probably dont realise that you have noticed them looking at you. So i think in this case either just look at them and they will probably look away and pretend they were not actually looking at you, or just ignore those who are looking at you. The chances that you will ever meet or see each other again is unlikely, and most of these guys do it cos they are desperate and/or just can't really do anything. The same goes with the guys that say things like "id bang her". They are all talk, all looking and pointing, but nothing they have done or will do to show for it. They are all talk.
Just ignore them, and make sure you are comfortable with your own body and skin, so that others around you dont put you off or make you feel uncomfortable.
Anway, not sure if I have explained it very well here, i hope i have, but if you need more advice and whatever, just ask
Hope this helps.
I do not usually respond to women under 18 but I think you might like to know what's ha here.
Firstly I would like to apologise for us men. I do not condone this behavior or in anyway try to make an excuse but we are conditioned to look at big breast. I have seen surveys down where pictures of groups of women are shown to men in quick succession. They had no idea what the study was for but the hit rate on the woMan with big breasts was in the 90 % margin from a retina detection piece of software.
I am sorry you are so young and must find this intimidating and unwanted. My only advice is to try and cover up a little but even this makes me feel for you. Why should you have too. Well guys just can't help it sorry. I do hope this helps
Wear a hoodie? Srry, i don't know how much this is bothering you, but if there's any clevage, they're gonna stare, if there's any bounce, exposure etc. ... they will stare, so if ur ok with wearing a hoodie id say go for it
I kno what hormones are like, i kno how hard it can be, but most likely these guys weren't raised to respect women, so they're not going to try
Really all you can do it cover it up.
If you have a nice body and boobs a lot of guys just can't control their eyes as males are easily stimulated visually.
Take it as a compliment buy if it's bothering you all that you can really do is cover up.
You are being "Sexually harassed " report this to the school immediately this is against the law.
As you grow older you will face this in the work place the earlier you assert your stand against your body being sexually objectified the stronger and more confident a woman you will grow into.
Also share your concern with your mother believe it or not she was once your age and probably faced the same humiliating scary issue.
As a father of 2 daughters if I could identify the little bitch boys that would have said that to my daughters I would of paid them a visit and had a little chat one sided of course until they would not so much as speak that way to a girl ever again.
well tell them to stop and dont worry about it guys do that all the time but me personaly wouldn't do that.
There's nothing you can do about people looking. At your age boys are just going to stare. They're horny teenage boys and boobs and a general awareness of girls is a new thing for them. Boobs are magnets for the eyes of boys.
As for the guys mouthing off, call him a creep and tell him to get lost in a loud voice. Those guys dont want negative attention. If a certain guy does it repeatedly, tell a teacher that you're being harassed and they're obligated to do something (at least they are where I live).
So the problem is big tits...
Hide them with proper arrangement, clothing , brassiere etc
Maybe there's a stain in your blouse or something
cover up maybe? people are gonna stare
Get used to itg
Just forget about it. Ignore them. Let them look at you and drool. You won't see them all you're life. a few years from now or next year you won't see them again anyways. So it won't matter anyway right...
It happens and its life. Wear more sweaters.
Yeah I can understand that would make you feel uncomfortable. They shouldn't be shouting out stuff like that either. Us guys are just visual creatures with hungry eyes. I saw a young girl with big breasts and nice figure the other day. I don't know what it is. Our eyes just automatically focus. I was mesmerised for a second. I was just like wow lol. But I didn't make it obvious and I didn't continually stare. I wouldn't deliberately make a girl feel uncomfortable. Those guys staring at you are just being immature.
You've got big boobs. You're going to have to learn to deal with them and even use it to your advantage. Next time some creep is staring, try calling him out on it and telling him to stop. If a guy makes a remark like "I'd bang her" again, say something like "In your dreams" or "Not a chance", basically anything to bruise his fragile ego. You can definitely report them to officials if it bothers you too much or if someone steps across the line and harasses you again.
Compliant it to your officiaks like your princpal.
Don't wear low-cleavage. This is the reason why I almost never wear low-cleavage tight tops anymore. It also goes away when you get older. At this age guys just walk after their dicks, because of hormones. Also, I'm not sure how old you are, but the voobs of other girls are still growing, while your might have fully grown, so it gets less special to have bigger boobs when you get older.
Sadly even if you wear a super huge shirt where it looks like a dress on you. You can still see the boobies and how big they are. So it's a serious challenge trying to cover them up. I've learned that wearing sports bra's have helped compress my boobs where they aren't so noticeable compared to wearing a push up bra. But seriously sports bra's are your best friend when your boobs are big.
Say something, leave the room, or give a dirty look. If you don't it won't stop.
But tell a teacher or just ignore them.
Omg this happened to me before I told my guidance councilor and the boys in my school stopped
guys like boobs.
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