Do guys not like being kissed and felt up? It feels like most guys just like their dick being touched and anywhere else doesn't turn them on as much as touching the girl.
Also guys always HAVE to be the big spoon, why?
Most Helpful Guy
I had to change my answer mid way through reading your question:
" It feels like most guys just like their dick being touched and anywhere else doesn't turn them on as much as touching the girl."
Correct. I mean some other spots are... mildly pleasant. But compared to the way most women seem to be, it would almost be accurate to say i have -no- erogenous zones other than my dick. Nothing else really excites me.
So do I prefer to touch or be touched? I probably use to prefer touching, now I like being touched a lot... on my dick. Still like touching a lot! But I don't need to be grabbed all over thanks.
I have to be the big spoon because I'm 6'3". Also because I like being protective, not protected. Also because I like having my dick against the girl's ass more than i like her to be in a good position to peg me.
Most Helpful Girl
What do you mean he switches back?
If He's not tying your hands behind your back there's no resson you can't touch him. Even if he's touching you.
I love touching. Sex would heavily suck for me if he didn't like being touched. It's not the same thing as , but definitely as importsnt to me as brimg touched.
It's not a matter of feeling lazy if I don't. I'll just feel like something is lacking smd like I'm being prevented from expressing myself physically... Almost like I'm being patronized. Which obviously not a turn on.
Probsbly just depends on the person. Maybe you gravitate towards guys who are more penis centric than full body... But anyone can change.
I remember reading a lot of guys are just so focused on their penis esp bc of all the hype over it, that they don't even realize how many pleasure areas they have... And if you want to get them into it try touching their body while touching his penis.