Most Helpful Guy
Whoa, first and only relations at age of 29. I mean, my first relations were like at age of 13...
Anyway, relax. Maybe he did pop your hymen with his fingers, maybe he didn't. Only a doctor can tell at that point. But you're definitely not a slut.
As for should you tell it to the other guy in a future: I believe in an unwritten rule "don't ask, don't tell". So unless he asks, there's no reason to say it upfront.
Most Helpful Girl
Your still a virgin and no your not a slut. Well since you should be honest to the one you love I advise you tell this to your other partner if he can't accept it he's not the one for and second did you report that stupid ass who hurt you he doesn't have the right and that is consider as molesting and he could be charge you don't know who else is in danger report him.
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