he mentioned he has stories about his ex and his hard times to tell me. now I go to him and say "isn't that rather one-sided?" cause we were alluding to both of our previous relationships. he says people usually aren't open to, well, being open, and I claim he has to actually ask; not everyone feels the need to talk about it without someone asking.
I personally don't feel comfortable talking about myself like he does - I don't like coming off conceited like he does because I don't consider myself such.
he also talks about his high school writing accomplishments and how he's good looking and smart and such. I'm sitting here, like, oh-kay.
now I've been trying to allude to his vainness but he's so thick headed.
how could I get him to maybe be less like this? or am I being a typical girl wanting to change a guy when I really can't?
tl;dr - guy I'm talking to it vain. I want him to be less but is that possible?