He's out of my league, but he really likes me?

[Anonymous]

It makes me so nervous... I just don't get why he likes me! How do I know if it's genuine?

[godfatherfan]

I never get this. Why would women be nervous in any relationship situation. new or otherwise. you control sex. you control the relationship. you decide if there will be sex at all, what kind, if he is getting that blow job he wants so bad. the woman is in complete control of everything. Plus, all the pressure of sex is on the man. women have absolutely ZERO pressure. The guy has to get and maintain an erection all while trying to figure out a way to make a woman orgasm. if she is new, then a rubix cube is easier to figure out. A woman is always ready, can always do it, time after time. what do you have to be nervous about? and men are never out of a woman's league. But women are many times out of a mans league. i just shake my head at these posts.

[Klaatu51]

what "league" means... if he's your ideal guy, would you dump him, because he's "out of your league"?

[unefille15]

I know where you're coming from; I've felt the same way. Don't let those negative thoughts fill your head. He sees something in you, and that's all that matters. Learn to love yourself and you'll soon grow to see all of your beautiful attributes. Don't question it though! And don't overthink yourself! (I've done this too) just go with the flow, breathe, and revel in the moment :) P. S., no one is too good for anyone! We are all human beings and therefore, we all have our own flaws and attributes. Even this "perfect" guy has flaws. Everyone does!! So being in or out of someone's "league" is just a bunch of BS.

[LonerGirlBree3]

There's no way to really know for sure if someone is genuine. Only time will tell. First things first though, get the whole "out of my league" nonsense out of your head. Thinking that way will only hurt you.

[aficionado]

In what way is he 'out of your league'?

[Asker]

He's more attractive, more charismatic, more people like him, he's a musician, girls flirt with him all the time... I don't know. the list goes on.

[aficionado]

That's just your point of view. What if he finds you really attractive and charismatic, and would like to pursue a relationship with you? It would be foolish to turn him down just because YOU think he's out of your league, right?