because i don't speak to her or rarely talk.
i'm reserved and introverted, but anyway she came up to me one day and asked "why don't you talk to me?" i did'nt have a answer to that, then she asked me "do you like me or something"
i panicked because i didn't understand what she meant by that, like maybe she was thinking i'm not talking to her because i hate her or something.
so i didn't want to hurt her feelings or offend her by saying no.
she's actually not my type , but she's not bad looking i guess.
so i said "yes", which she then paused for a second and said said aww, then smiled and proceeded to rub my wrist in a affectionate way.
i then panicked and got nervous and just sat there silent and confused, and just ignored her after that.
what was i supposed to do?
i'm really confused what even happened, miscommunication error.
Most Helpful Girl
She sounds really rude... your no the rude one... why is she so concerned about who you are?, i get girls being this way to me because i'm an introvert too, i'm quiet around people and don't talk much but they take it too personally like i hate them or something, i think she needs to accept who you are and not be judgmental... It's jsut a stupid stigma these days that if your not "out-going", "confident" and "talkative" 24/7 your some how nasty, ignorant and no good... it's an awful thing to think about people... everyone wants you to be who they want... never mind accepting you for who you are... I think she just took it too personally and jumped to conclusions like other girls do...
Most Helpful Guy
You'll have to be brave and tell her that you're not good in that sort of communication and may have messed up. Best to be open and tell her how you misinterpreted the situation and screwed up.
An honest sorry will probably save you, doing nothing will only add to the confusion.