He's in love with me already. I am so not even close to being serious with him yet.
We are in a relationship.
Is this doomed?
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No, it could be well on it's way if you do not do something quickly though. If he is truly falling for you then after a while there is a good chance he's going to get aggravated/embarrassed when the feelings are not reciprocated. If you think there is a potential you may feel the same at some point and want the relationship to continue talk to him. Communication is the key always, explain to him not that you don't feel the same but that things are going a lot faster than you would like. Tell him that from being hurt in the past it takes time to really let your guard down. It's not taking the blame or blaming him, neither of which would be good. Tell him that if he does feel that way he will respect how you feel and go slow, taking the time to let things move slowly. If he starts trying to explain how you don't need to feel that way with him or makes excuses he's too clingy or is more concerned with himself, which in my opinion means time to move on. It's easy for that type of convo to go bad fast, so thing of how you feel is appropriate to tell him before hand. If it's just killing things for you or you just feel it's time to cut your losses you should sooner rather than later. If you dump him do it the right way though because it's going to be a lot harder for him.