Why is he acting this way?

my ex started talking to me again after dumping me. Well we hung and then when he dropped me off he kissed me and we ended up making out for a while. That was our first kiss since we broke up 5 months ago. So anyways things were fine and he seemed just as interested after that happened. Me and him switch off who starts the conversation bc I like both people to put in equal amount of effort, so he would text me one day and I'd text him the next. Ok so you should know that we would talk either every day or every other day.. This continued even after he kissed me. But within the past week it seems to me like he isn't as interested. I texted him on Saturday and he was taking forever to respond and he stopped replying so our convo was very short which made it seem like he didn't wanna talk. I texted him again on Monday to make plans for this weekend. Well it's Thursday tm and we haven't talked since Monday when I started the convo and I'm annoyed bc we used to talk every day and now we've only talked 2 times in the last week. And both of those time I was the one to start the convo. I don't know what to do. He is supposed to come over Saturday but I was thinking that if he doesn't text me until the day we are supposed to hangout, it just shows that all he wants to do is kiss me since he hasn't tried to talk to me all week. So I was thinking I should tell him that I don't want him to come over, and when he asks "why?", I'll say "bc now that you won me back you don't make an effort to talk to me anymore & I don't want someone who is gonna get bored that fast." .. I kinda wanna tell him that it seems to me like he wanted me more before we kissed, but I'm not sure if I should bc he'll get mad. Anyways, do you think I'm overreacting or is it normal that I'm worried? And what should I do about this?


Most Helpful Guy

  • It is normal that you are worried. And you should ask him that what's the matter otherwise you should call things off because he is no good.

    • One of the reasons he dumped me is cause I would get upset when he wouldn't talk to me for 3 days and he thought I was overreacting but I don't think I was

    • Ask him why the fuck is he doing this, if he answers and comes back to track then it's all fine, if he babbles bullshit and again do this, then my only advice for you is to leave him.

Recommended Questions


Have an opinion?

What Guys Said 0

The only opinion from guys was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion!

What Girls Said 0

Be the first girl to share an opinion
and earn 1 more Xper point!

Recommended myTakes