He has become totally platonic with me. But now I am willing to give him a chance because I got to know him. We hang out almost everyday, but he hasn't flirted, complimented, or anything with me. I was joking around one time, and I said "I'm going to flash that guy my tits! Haha" He said "No, don't. I don't want to see my best friend's tits! That's weird!" I was kinda baffled by that. He will sometimes compliment me, and say I am "pretty", but he's not really flirty with me.
Then he said to me one day "I love you so much, not like a crush, but I love you, as a person. Like a sister." I am crushed, and baffled by that lol. Because he mad flirted, and tried to get with me before, but now all of a sudden no interest? So, here are my questions. Do guys do this when the girl doesn't reciprocate? How does he have completely total different feelings for me? Can guys do that? Is he hiding his feelings? What is your take on it. Thanks.
Most Helpful Guy
Just make a move on him and I'm sure the ball will get rolling.
Guys still have all the pressure to form the relationship respectfully when it's quite easy for the girl to do it at any time by way of physical touch. Just kiss him, then things can proceed easily.
Most Helpful Girl
When he tried to get with you, you didn't reciprocate so he gave up.. in the meantime, as you've gotten to know each other he decided that you're still a cool chick and he wants to be friends with you and his feelings have changed to become platonic.
I have a question for you - are you sure you don't just suddenly like him now that you're not the centre of his attention anymore?