1. A sweet girl, funny but not the brightest. She loves fashion and she likes to drink and party but she loves you unconditionally and gives you all the space in the world and is thankful for everything you do. You don't know if you really are in love with her.. but you do love her. You keep saying that you want to purpose when you think it's right and that your not ready to get married just yet.
2. A nice girl, funny and you have a history together. She's broken your heart before and you thought she played head games but regardless of your thoughts she's stood behind you for 8 years after you've broken her heart multiple times. She's there when you need her and she's not afraid to tell you if your being an asshole. She doesn't care much about fashion or celebrities. She appreciates everything you do... but she's terrible at saying thank you. She's stubborn too. But you once upon a time loved her and wanted to marry this girl.
Which is the ideal girl?
- number one.
- number 2
Most Helpful Guy
If these are my only two options, I would rather be celibate...
But I agree with @klaatu51 as I am not interested in the typical fashion-and-party crowd. Seen many in high school. Not interested, never was. We would hate each other. And if #2 played mind games, she does not deserve my trust either.
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Most Helpful Girl
It's impotent to have someone willing to call you on your shit. I don't trust people are constantly thankful. A lot of people don't always deserve thanks. It's like hero warship. That's not healthy for them and it's not helpful for you. and I don't get along with people who can actually make a life out of fashion.
However all the cheating is a deal breaker on both sides. And again with the thankfulness... I think both these people just don't sit right.
So neither is good but personality wise id go for #,2. But I wouldn't go for more than a fling or passionate affair with. # 2. I don't think wed ever trust each other and it'd be used as an excuse to cheat. Plus there's this feeling that she just thinks I'm great when she shouldn't.