Do my guy friends secretly have a crush on me? What does this mean? Should I say anything?

Ok, so my closest guy friends (we'll name them "I" and "D") ok, so "D" and I have been friends for 4 years, and he told me 3 years ago he had a crush on me. The feeling wasn't mutual or anything, so we remained friends. Last year, he dated my best friend, and he got pretty "popular" from dating her too. All the sudden tons of girls were all over him. I thought he had forgotten about me ): but actually we ended up being friends again, and just like before. He acts a lot different now in general. He says I love you to all his friends that are girls and like hugs them all the time and flirts. He does it to me too, but I swear he treats me differently than all of them. He's also a slight bit more mean to me (which he admits and apologizes a lot for) he says it's because he knows I understand his humor and everything since we've been close for so long. Anywyas, my friend "I" and I were hanging out today. He threw candy at me and it almost went down my shirt and I said "OH NICE AIM" and he said "CRAP NOW YOU KNOW WHERE I WAS LOOKING" and I threw the candy back and said try again, so for like 15 minutes he was just trying to throw this piece of candy down my shirt over and over. While he was doing this he said "who in our grade flirts with you the most?" And I said "I really don't know why?" And he said "does D flirt with you?" And I said "D flirts with everyone" and He said "Ya but especially you, right" and I said " I don't know" then he said "hey don't think I'm trying to flirt with you"
What does any of this mean? Are they both just being weird, does one of them like me? Am I reading too much into this?


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  • I think that D is flirting around because he is trying to forget his feelings on you? But the way he treat you shows that you are special to him..
    And that I is maybe trying to dig information about you and D. And ready to take a step forward if you seems like giving him a try.

    You're not. I do have the same feelings like you when guys do that to me haha


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