Do guys lie about this kind of thing because more happened that they're hiding? Should this secrecy be a deal breaker?
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I've been to a strip club once in my life. It was a spur of the moment decision on a stag night (not my choice. I was drunk and just going with the flow).
I bought quite a few lap dances and I really enjoyed them but I have a sense of perspective and didn't take it too seriously so I had no problem telling my partner about it - for the sake of full disclosure.
I instantly regretted it. She felt that I'd now be comparing her to these 'idealised' women and she would no longer be good enough. No matter how much I explained she just didn't get it that it was all a bit of a carry on and nothing more.