Most Helpful Girl
Not likely. The very fact that you're not very attractive but want to get the most attractive physically in a female negates the whole "good personality" thing.
Part of a guy having a good personality (in a female's eyes), is that he focuses on the quality things in life, and values more than looks in a female. So if your number 1 criteria in a female is being the most amazingly beautiful, you don't really have a good personality, in my opinion.
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Most Helpful Guy
Given a lifetime of experience and observation, I say personality transcends looks. Yes we men dream about that trophy wife, but I have found that the women I gravitate towards are the ones who are ambitious and smart. So try to refocus on women not only for their current looks, but for their intellectual capacity. (See YouTube video below)
We are initially drawn towards each other by looks and first impressions. However once we meet, there is a need for substance to sustain and feed a relationship. So take it from me, that average girl who's struggling to shed a few pounds while working her way through school is a better catch than the divas at the clubs.
Want to meet more interesting women? Clean out your closet and invest in some new clothes. (I recommend you have a gf help you find what's stylish.) Donning decent clothes is a quantum leap for any guy's 'curb appeal'.
Spice up your looks by being well groomed. Women notice that a mile away. It makes you look attractive and handsome. That's a must!!!
Join a club, be more active in your community. (Even have random conversations with women in the supermarket.) You never know where you'll meet your SO. Don't be afraid to initiate!
Finally, be educated! Once you meet a girl, you want to be able to sustain a conversation. Enhance your vocabulary- and I don't mean pick up lines! I mean be able to foster an educated conversation by being well informed. (Watch the news and read) Be up to date on current affairs.
In summary: EDUCATED+WELL GROOMED = CHICK MAGNET
None of these are a guarantee, but these adjustments will place you on the higher tier of availability with women.