What does it mean if he says he doesn't know how to comfort me?

We were talking on the phone and I was upset because he said the more vulnerable I become, the more his wall goes up. Then he said he didn't know how to comfort me. What does he mean?


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  • I think he means that he's uncomfortable with your need for comfort as he might need reassuring himself.

    • Ty but what do i do?

    • Ask yourself why he thinks you need comforting. And assure him you don't need him to comfort you. Invite him out for coffee or ice cream. And just enjoy each others company.

    • Okay i will. But why would his walls go up when i show vulnerability?

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