Why do men 30+ stare at younger girls?

I'm 16, and I'll be at the super-market and these older/old guys will just stare into my eyes like wtf? Like today this guy was staring at my face and as soon as I looked at him he turned his head very fast? WHY?

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  • Because age laws and shit are created by governments. There is no biological rule that says girls under a certain age aren't attractive... if you've gone through puberty, you're ready to mate, and thus you can be attractive to any male who is also ready to mate.

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    • Hmmm ight but these guys have families

    • Again, just because a guy has a family doesn't mean he suddenly finds all other girls unattractive.

    • Alright haha

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  • It's because young girls and women are inappropriately sexualized and it creates a sickness where much older men think it's desirable to be with young girls.

    Have you seen that screenshot of a YouTube video about how to make a school uniform more fun? It was posted by a 14 year old and her two main demographics are girls her age and men ages 40-50

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    • Thats what I think like why do they stare at my face it's weird, and no what's the video?

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    • Not to be weird lol, I just love looking a peoples tumblrs!

    • Nw. I wouldn't give it out if I minded XD

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What Guys Said 19

  • Yes they shouldn't be looking at younger girls
    some of them i think... aren't thinking but they need
    realize staring can make one uncomfortable especially
    a teenager female i don't know WTF wrong with them?

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    • I seriously DON'T know. But one guy who use to be my principle in middle school keeps staring at and going out of his way to talk to me it's very weird

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    • lol people would think I'm crazy tho

    • Yesh oh wow *Faints*

  • Ummm... Make sire you have your pedo kit available at all times in case od emergency O_______O!!! No but seriously some men for some reason love younger women even if its vy a margin of 15-30 years of difference just like some older women like guys with the same age difference as well

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    • Hahahaha, but thats so weird, these men have wives!!

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    • Dang lol not at all

    • Yup thats pretty much a good life troll right there

  • Some girls at your age look actually older. They stare simply because they think you're attactive.

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    • Some people think I'm 14 lol

    • Well, you're not... not all people see you the same way, right? I just know that I can't see any other reason for a guy to stare at a girl if he doesn't think she's attractive.

    • Yeah, you're right thanks

  • because they are pervy pervs :D and it doesn´t say "16" on your forehead, does it? some girls look older than they are.

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    • lol true but even my old principal from middle school is now going out of his way to stare at me

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    • wtf haha

    • I mean it's how it is... Sad reality.

  • Regardless of how old men get we are visual and we can't resist a beautiful women. Although most can resist someone too young. Somtimes it is hard to judge age. I saw someone I thought was like 15 and she was 23...
    The time you need to worry is when men stop staring...

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    • Haha alright I know, but it makes me feel bad because they're married. But thanks

    • I was with my ex wife 25 years. There is nothing wrong with looking as long as you don't touch. men are visual, we will always look. It is the weak ones that touch the ones they shouldn't.

    • Okay haha I'm thinking that guys would cheat on their wives, by the looks they give off

  • Well

    It's human nature to desire youth. The fountain of youth would be the most important fountain if it ever existed

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  • The simple answer is they are pretty. He probably doesn't know you are 16. But i n reality you can't control what other people do and the reality of that is you wouldn't want to live in a country like that either. As long as he doesn't make a move on you that would be a whole other story.

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    • Weird thing is my princible from when middle school is flirting with me!!

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    • Hahaa no this in my school same time after my 3b period

    • It's hard really to tell without being there i would only be guessing at his thoughts.

  • Some man like looking at a good looking girl's but 16 wow What about the woman over 30 I bet she looks at younger guys but nothing said? in my a pinon
    I bet your good looking or he would not look or may be he is just a perv just be careful If man try's more then look tell your Parents

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  • Now women also want to control our eyes as well. We're programmed by mother nature to be attracted to certain characteristics.. it's called being a human. No it's not creepy since it's normal behavior.

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    • hmm interesting, figuring they stare at my face it attracts them?

    • So what if they find you attractive. Why is that do bad? They haven't touched you in a sexual manner.

    • I'm not saying it's bad...

  • Because we have such good role models in society

    steelcityblitz.com/.../Big-Ben.jpg

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    • Hey I live in the Burgh

  • They are probably checking you out. You're probably attractive that's why.

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  • In Arkansas 15 is the age of consent

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  • your eye brows must be off point.

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  • It's Nostalgia

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  • maybe they're struck by your beauty, haha

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  • you're hot. Deal with it.

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    • thanks buddy, will do haha

  • Stop crying little girl

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    • is that your best answer?

  • They think you're hot

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    • I guess I should be flattered?

  • Because they can target them easily n use them!!! Bitter fact!!!

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What Girls Said 9

  • Loving how you're telling people off for not knowing the age of consent in your region, anon of anywhere in the world.

    Moving on. There's a range of reasons they are staring.

    -How you're dressed. Are you wearing a crop top and a tiny skirt? In which case, don't complain you're being stared at, of any age. Cover up if you don't want attention.
    Likewise, if you are covered up, maybe he's looking at you fondly thinking "I wish my daughter grows up and does that"

    -He's wishing his little girl/niece/whatever grows up to do what you're doing.

    -He's admiring someone raised right

    -He wants to follow you round, be your bestie and maybe rape you.
    This is probably a long stretch seeing as most men who want this would have done it before you posted this. But, on the other hand. just keep an eye. I doubt it was serious, but maybe just let this one.

    Pay attention to how they stare at you and what they say rather than staring at all. Sometimes you'll just be in their line of sight.

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    • first part: what?
      and I'm dressed in a coat considering it's freezing, no covering up to do. And they usually stare into my eyes/ face

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    • obviously it's legal to just look. And I noticed that when you find anyone attracted you end up staring at the face, I normally do it with my crush, I just find older men doing it creepy

    • As I said it's not always attraction. Here's an example - that man has a little girl about your age. And that little girl is on drugs and ran away from home recently. Maybe he's staring at you thinking "I wish she was more like her". Don't take it too personally, you don't know what's going on in his head x

  • They probably just think you're pretty. They don't mean it in a creepy way I'm sure, and you know that you're 16 but they don't know that.

    I think it can be creepy as hell sometimes if they are full on checking you out and they look like grandpas, but a glance isn't bad.. I look at older guys all the time (;

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    • haha thanks girly :), they legit stare at my face like wtf

  • Cause they're creeps, and they're a few boners away from Viagra. I'm talking shit it's because their gf/wife is sagging away, still talking shit. Young girls are hot honestly, and who doesn't like a man in his 30's if you're old enough. You're still young, so you'll find it gross I did lol.

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  • Cuz they're disrespectful pedos.

    I used to get stared at since I was like 12. And no, I didn't look "older". In fact, most people mistake my age all the time. Even when I was like 14 I looked 11. I didn't hit puberty (and I barely hit it) until I was like 15.
    Some guys are just disgusting fucks who don't care how old the receiving end of their socket is.

    In fact, lots of my friends like at 12, 13, 14 were dating men in their 20s and 30s. And the men KNEW they were underage. But they didn't care. Cuz they only wanted to cheat on their wives with young pussy. Pedos.

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    • Hahahah I love your enthusiasm! Speak with such passion, your must be such a great lover

      Your back I see, haven't seen you in a while

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    • Yes indeed I sure do :)

      Ah I see, yes a break is great, actually a break from the Internet as a whole is great sometimes

      Enjoy gagging, I'll maybe catch up with you on another post and bug ya

  • how much of your body is showing? guys are visual so if there is a lot showing then every guy is going to stare either openly or discreetly. its hard for them not to its just the way their brains works and it can be hard for them to look away, and if they are staring at just your face take it as a complement they prob just think your really cute and some girls just have that kind of face that makes you remember a person

    I hope your not a grammar Nazi, cause I know my grammar is horrible.

    I hope my opinion helped and that it wasn't to awkward for you!

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    • I live in PA it's freezing, I'm wearing a coat jeans and boots lol

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    • then you prob are just really cute or remind him of some one like i said if thats the case take it as a compliment ;)

    • Alright girly thanks :))

  • Because they're creeps..

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  • Why do u think?

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    • I don't know my friends think I look similar to someone they know, wbu

  • You got the goods or you're advertising it.

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  • Because they are perverted, and they are old horn dogs... all they want is sex

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    • exactly what I think!! sometimes I feel flattered but ew makes me want to take a shower

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