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Jerks do much better than nice but anxious guys.
Also a lot of behaviors that are normal are categorized as 'bad' to boys growing up so their 'jerk versus nice' assessments are skewed.
Most women do prefer men who are confident, comfortable with their sexuality and also nice. But we don't actually raise boys to be like that.
And a surprising number of women do seek out abusive behaviors they grew up with but I don't believe that's most.