Now he talked to me!! Yesterday and he was completely calm and asking me questions that he already knew the answers to. I was happy but now today he walked right by me (finally not avoiding me!) but he didn't look my way.
What's going on?
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Usually avoiding and not looking means pain and confusion. At least that's what i got out of it when it happened to me.
There is this girl that at some point she would not talk to me, would not answer when I was saying hi or bye to the group ( part of the same group), she would just go quiet, like she was afraid of talking to me or doing anything that had something to do with me.
i would sometimes catch her look at me. When i was looking back, she would look into my eyes but quietly turn her head. when i was actually addressing her, she would answer and then in a matter of minutes, she would start to get lively again
He is most likely like this girl. Is he a guy that chases after girls all the time? It's most likely that he does not do that, that he liked you a lot and when you ignored him, he took it as a rejection. He was in pain ( holding head down and not saying anything), confused and also scared that you will notice that he likes you, and that you actually don't like him back and will expose him. Does not want to be that creepy guy.
Now he approached you again because he had a reason to do it. The project that you guys have to do. This project helped him make a connection with you. It's the most random stuff. Nobody will suspect that he actually likes you for asking about a project.
Keep in mind that he will show interest a lot less compared to before you ignored him.
He will talk to you about the most random stuff, just so he does not blow his cover. My guess is he still likes you, but does not want to show it any longer and avoid you for the rest of the time when there is no reason to talk to you.
So give him reasons to talk to you. If you sit next to eachother in class throw stuff at him, ask for his attention and give him yours. It would be also good that if others are making sexual jokes with you and/or say that you like some other dude, to turn down the rumours calmly. If you do not, he will keep ignoring thinking those might be true.