I have had this opinion for a long time, because I have liked guys, who I though liked me back, but after a while I found out they were not interested in me. I was just creating illusions that he liked me and had a wishful-thinking that he is afraid to approach me or something.
I see here a lot of guys responding to girls something like "maybe he is just shy", "don't know how to start a conversation" or "he is afraid of rejection".
But let's be honest here, a guy who can actually talk to people and has friends, is able to approach a girl he likes, even when he is shy.
I truly believe that when guy likes a girl, he will go after her. At least he looks at her often and tries to talk to her.
Anyone has objections? Feel free to share them and explain.
Most Helpful Guy
"At least he looks at her often and tries to talk to her. " <--- he TRIES at least if he's interested.
but if he's shy then he'll kinda chicken out in my opinion
Most Helpful Girl
All guys are different. I have liked guys and not done anything about it, so why is it different just because I'm a girl? Also a lot of guys have come forward themselves and said they are too afraid or whatever, many reasons, so are you really going to ignore actual real men telling you you're wrong, and instead stick by your belief when in fact you don't know what's going on inside every mans head?