Most Helpful Guy
He sounds hypocritical and selfish. If he wants to have female friends he has no right to say you can't have guy friends. And threatening you with a breakup to get his way? That's blackmail and an abusive relationship. Dump his ass.
Most Helpful Girl
You didn't do anything wrong. You are in no way to blame for the way the guys you thought you were friends with abused you, and he has no right to be angry at you when you go to him for help. The way he has reacted is disgusting and abhorrent. You need to decide whether he has the right to have control over your life like that. As your boyfriend, his role is to support and help you, and NOT punish you for things that aren't your fault! Leave him!