- Yep, you're being used.
- He cares for you more than just friends.
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If he is not willing to talk about the feelings and tries to squelch them whenever you bring them up, you're a fuck-buddy or booty call or friends with benefits only to him. I'd give him one chance to be honest-- force him to be brutally honest-- you have what he wants, so you can pull the strings. If he wants nothing but a sexual relationship and you want mote, then you owe it to yourself to move on and find someone who WILL give you the kind of relationship you're actually looking for.