Most Helpful Guy
sound like you still having feeling for him since you guys never official "broke up".
Just realize that not everyone on earth will like you, some will hate you for anything you do, right or wrong.
Stop caring about him, stop caring about what he say, stop caring about what he do, just cut everything.
The opposite of love is not hate, it indifference. Hate mean you still harbor feeling for that other person, negatively.
It time to be indifferent about your ex.
Most Helpful Girl
I had same problem with my ex and basically it's guilt. He doesn't wanna be responsible for his actions in the past relationship and is trying to make other people think you are no good. But see on thing he has to understand his one day when he dates another good woman like you and trys to play her the same way, she will leave him and spread out how much of a no good guy he is and then what he said about you no one will believe. Just pray for him because he will reap what he sow. Don't contact him asking about why he is doing this, don't post anything about him online just be silent because surely a light will shine on who he really is. If you pay attention how could he talk so bad about you on social media but claim to people you are so bad? Him disrespecting you in front of people on social media reveals who he really is. LOL now you see why I said don't even bother repaying him.