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I while back I had a friend whom I met at work. I generally don't talk much, cause I never have much to say, so I come off as shy and awkward. But she was crushing on me, and one night, after work she asked me to get yogurt and cigars. That's when I knew she was like the coolest person ever. we started hanging out a ton.
She asked me out about three months later, and she kept pressing it and brining it up casually. She even convinced me to leave my current relationship, so that I could "love myself," before entering into a new one.
I just wasn't attracted to her. It wasn't at all as though she wasn't pretty. She was very attractive, and fun to talk to. She just wasn't my type. She was a little on the thick side for me, whereas traditionally, I dated the beachy petite feminine girls, she was more of a hipster.
Couple weeks went by and a guy at work asked her out. I was the "guy bestie" brotherly role, that wanted her to be careful and not have sex until she was ready, etc. I helped her through her guy troubles.
But something happened, she grew distant with me. She started to go weeks with out talking to me or texting me. I guess it isn't until you lose someone that you realize you'd fallen for them. The irony is, I had gotten out of a relationship hoping to "fix myself" without worry of heart break.
Turns out you don't have to be in a relationship to get your heart broken.
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