He is 22 and im 36 I'm confused by this guy I work with, does he really like me or just wants sex?
There is this guy I work I'm confused by the way he acts around me. At first we flirted a lot, there was definitely chemistry between us we even have the same birthday date but 15year gap. He looks at me all the time, tries to touch me every opportunity, he gave me a lift home about 3 months ago he asked for a cuddle the a kiss which I did. Weeks went on without mentioning the kiss and he became horrible towards me, mocking me, mocking my laugh when I'm laughing with other guy work colleagues but still he always watches me. Then a few weeks ago he mentioned the kiss I just laughed and said "oh that I've forgotten about that" he asked if I still had his number, I said "no I deleted it". He went all weird on me for weeks making fun of my height, mocking me but still I could see him looking at me and still coming up close. We kinda started to talk ok and then last weekend he asked me in work if I wanted to go to the hospital with him, I said "no" but then later I messaged him and asked how he got on. He then asked what I was doing then it went on to be flirty messages. He said we could meet up for a cuddle and more than just kissing as it would be fun, so I sent a winking face and I've not said anything since. Today he called work and was so abrupt with me then said I'm not giving you my number again. Anyway im confused by the way he acts, does this guy really like me or what? Or is he just wanting to get the older woman into bed. Im actually attracted to him but I hate his childish nonsense. I've told him I don't play games it's either a yes or a no. Can anyone help and tell me maybe what could be going through this guy's head cos I'm all confused.
Do guys get intimidated or nervous when around an attractive girl (that they might like) ? My boyfriend refused to have sex with me because he needs to study. Do you think it can be legit or is it an excuse? Why are guys scared to approach the girl they like? Be honest? Is this guy very abusive? I broke up with him AND THIS WAS HIS RESPONSE?
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He really, really likes sex.
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