My boyfriend recently followed this "public figure" in instagram where she posts skimpy pictures of her butt and abs. It makes me feel, "Are my private pictures good enough?" because he does have a couple of them! When we are out and there are girls that are not as attractive he still would look at them up and down, I just feel its quite disrespectful
I know he won't cheat and he is completely faithful to me, after all it took him awhile to jump into a relationship. It took us awhile to get together ever since he saw me as eye candy because he wants to get to know me more as a person before diving into a relationship.
I want to know if its normal for guys to check out other girls when they are in a committed relationship and am I all right to feel this way or am I being an insecure little bitch?
Most Helpful Guy
It's completely natural for guys to check out other women while in or outside of a relationship it's just in our nature to do it. so as long as he is faithful then there's no big problem but I guess if it really bugs you then you can ask him to at least not do it when your together.
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds to me like he enjoys the fact that other men want you, but can't have you like he can. Those men can have you for a moment, a glance, or even just a short time to exchange emails. But he can have you as long as he wants.
It is odd that he is telling you to give guys your number. But I'm wondering if he has a cuckold fetish? Basically what it is is a guy who gets turned on when his girlfriend is with another guy.
It could even go so far as you having sex with another guy and him either watching or listening to you enjoying another man. Some guys get off on stuff like that.
I'm not sure if that's the case. But it's quite possible.
If you are really curious as to where this is coming from. I would ask him. Ask him why he encourages you to give out your number. See what he says.