They split a few months ago... out of the blue he's text me a longgggg message. Very sweet and explained how he had somehow developed feelings for me back then even though we hadn't met... that i'm a quality person even though I can be volatile at times only that's quite endearing? He's said he'd like to stay in touch but if not then it's cool... we chatted for hours, not flirting, he rang and we spoke via phone call for an hour and a half... I asked his advice on a recent guy I had feelings for and he suggested i rejoin the dating site I met him on? He's said a few times i'm endearing. What does he mean by endearing? He didn't want to come off the phone to me but it was 3am and I was tired... I'm confused what he could want? Is it possible he just wants friendship or not?
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like he wants to put you into rebound status. He likes you but doesn't want to get hurt, since you essentially rejected him, is why he's playing the "you should X" game. What he means is "You should date me". That said, I'd stay away. Something made you hesitate the first time. Unless you've figured out what that was and fixed it, I don't see how this could work out. But it may be good for a couple months of fun?
Most Helpful Girl
he's intrested in u he wouldn't just stay up to talk to u if he didn't have feelings of ru