A friend of mine and I have had a thing for quite some time now. We haven't slept together, we mostly just kiss and cuddle. On the one hand he likes to grab my butt a lot and on the other hand he also plays with my hair a lot. He never kissed me with tongue. He is always very cuddly toward me and sometimes we lay there in silence just cuddling for a couple minutes. When we are around his friends we act pretty much normal, sometimes he ruffles my hair or we just stand there hugging but we never kiss in front of our friends. Even though all of them know about us. We never defined the relationship. So what are? Cuddle buddies or what is going on?