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If he treats you like garbage then you don't owe him an explanation.
That's so true. I'm garbage one day and treasure the next.
He doesn't deserve u
Nope he doesn't
No one jokes about such stupid things.
This jerk deserves to be cut off. Let him think about what he did.
That's what I said, and that's why I don't understand why he apologized.
Kick that jerk out of your life. Neither of you are getting anything good out of this, things seem to be getting worse and worse.
They are, you are completely right.
Just cut him off.
Do bipolar people even make things up? I don't think so. He can't even give proper insults.
Exactly
Seems to me like he doesn't know what bipolar means. It also seems to like you're asking him a question he's trying to avoid answering. You may love him and he may be a nice guy who's afraid to open up but if you're unhappy and need something more stable and secure then it is absolutely OK to walk away without a single word said. Never stay in a situation that makes you unhappy or insecure. There are plenty of people out there that have what you are looking for.
Yes he is very guarded, he said all his gf before me have cheated on him.
Tbh NO as men NEVER accept my reasons and debates then ensue.
Silence is mentally easier.
True, especially with a manipulator
(smiling)
No man I have dated or had sex with so far, has been smart enough to manipulate me.
Also, people who say "just joking" are ALWAYS serious but waaay too cowardly to own it.
Plus DONT EVER LISTEN TO YOUR FRIENDS!!!
Peace & luck xo.
OMG, i feel you girl, you know he's wrong.. but he draws you back. I hope you find peace.. I am searching for mine! I think the only peace we will ever find is to cut it without explanation, because these control/manipulators use your own words against you to suck you back in. Guess what? Calling you bipolar or any other degradation? He's just trying to make you feel bad and letting you know he accepts those "flaws" to control you.
It's hard as heck trying to get out a situation like this. I use to talk about other women's, and use to wonder why they stayed with a man who emotionally abused them.
If you don't tell him, how is he supposed to learn from it, and avoid the same mistakes again?
Yes 45, he should no by now, right.
Indeed.
i think it's fine to break up with him but I think telling him couldn't hurt
But he always try to manipulate me
well if you know he is trying to manipulate simply don't fall for his b. s. call, text or tell him in person that you are done with the relationship. don't bother listening to his excuses or all the little sweet things he'll say to try and keep you.
Ok, I'm try my best, but I have to see him everyday. We work together
Cut him off because this relationship is goons kill. Forget him and find another man!
Plan on it. I have plenty of dudes who want me.
If they're a decent or good to you it's wrong. But if he's a master manipulator, he doesn't deserve shit. You did right cutting him off.
Yes he is a master manipulator, he always make everything my fault no matter what.
He's a douche. He deserves nothing.
You don't need to explain. Just move on and he will get it.
cutting people off is a dangerous road to go down emotionally closure wise
Those choices of words though - I thought you were talking about traffic laws there for a moment.
haha i didn't realize that when i was typing it haha ;)
Whatever you do, DON'T just cut him out of your life without explanation. God that's so fkn annoying and stupid. I hate when girls do that.
Is it a low blow or something.
It's just annoying and makes no sense. It's like, why wouldn't you just say something? Like you're talking to me and everything and then I just stop. What do you do? What do you think?
My gf dumped me in the middle of a good morning randomly and then I broke down in rage at my school and was taken to the office and kept there pissed for the rest day
Wow sorry, y she break up with you
I have a problem with emotionless-ness most of the time but I still want her happy dont know why but I CAN'T get mad at her
Are you scared to show your feelings
Im not afraid I've just been thought to be strong and that has affected my emotional state
Oh ok, so basically she thought you didn't care, even though you did.
any one calling your bipolar or anything negative is not worth being with
So true, he is always saying things to put me down, and it's worse when I call him out on something.
If men can ask women out on dates via text I think it is fair game to dump them via text.
and cold turkey is the best way to end an relationship.
The thing is It was a long time before I gave into him, he actually put in work. But after I gave in and a couple of months went by, he changed and became a different person.
Cutting him off with no explanation would just prove that you are bipolar.
How? After her he said all that, I was hurt.
If you provide an explanation, at least you said something. In his mind, if you just cut him off like that, he would probably think, "yeah, she cut me off just like a crazy, bipolar chick would do!"
Ok I understand what you're saying.
That's the best way actually. Don't explain shit.
Right! More than likely he's not going to care anyway so why even waste your time.
First tell me what things he says and does...😐
He'll tell me about the women he want to screw. Then one day he said he wish he could get to know a woman he screws again cause he wanna f her
Well seems like it's a good thing to cut him off... cause this guys doesn't give two fucks about you... At all... He is not treating you right.. and just let him go.. you are in a toxic relationship
why are you women with jerks only? What is it that you like about them? i really wanna know Just educate me a little...
When we first started talking, he was the sweetest man I have ever known. So after a while, I let my guard down and let him in. I guess he slowly changed and now I realize it. It's like everything he once said, he has taken it back. After he said he didn't care, he tried to make jokes about the rest of our conversation.
Well i hope yoi dump him... you deserve better!!! 😊
*you
Yes I do deserve better than who is always trying to manipulate me