Guys, is it a turn off if a girl is a virgin?

I'm a virgin and wanna tell my boyfriend so when we do have sex he's not so rough but I'm afraid it would turn him off.
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  • Actually... I've had a couple. One I knew about her being one, so we took it easy. The other didn't tell me until after a few tries and a couple days.

    I would prefer that they not be virgins, but if they are, then I would want to know so we can take all the right precautions to make it as comfortable for then as we could. So I think you should tell him. I think he would be excited to be the person who gets to see you blossom into a freak for him.

  • Not at all, I think for most guy it isn't a turn off because in that case they'll know you didn't get laid with tons of guys. Maybe some wil l be a little bit hesitant because it is your first time and they don't want to hurt you or anything but I am pretty sure that for most guys being a virgin is not a turn off.

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  • No I'd think it's awesome she picked me to be her first. I'd be excited.

  • tbh i prefer non-virgins basically

  • No it's not turn off if a girls a virgin, if your boyfriend
    can't accept you for who you are than that's his problem

  • If you can't be honest with your own boyfriend, maybe you shouldn't have sex.

  • It's not a turn off for me at all. I would want to know so I don't accidentally hurt her though

  • I am considered lucky if i find one. At this time people are preferred (in both genders) if you have been in more relationships.

  • not a turn off, I've been with 2 virgins its great

  • Um, no? Why would it be?

  • It's not a turn off at all. I'm just those type of person that prefers someone who had the same experience or as close to as possible. In my opinion the sex is that much better because she actually knows what she is doing as well.

  • How old are you? 18, who cares whatever. 24? ehhh

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