Why are Indian guys so... Creepy?

[Anonymous]

Now, I don't want to sound racist, But, You notice it on here a lot, and a lot on other sites too. Whenever a girl puts up a hot picture or something, There will always be some indian guy giving the hole ''you look hot message me'' and being overly forward. Like, If you go on anyfacebook page that posts a picture of a hot girl, And you go from through the comments, You will see indian guys saying to message them and being overly sexual and commenting their emails and phone numbers and shit. I realise guys from all nationalities do this, But, It just seems like the vast majority of time its an indian guy. Is this just a Cultural difference or something? is it acceptable to be SO MASSIVELY 'Forward' in india?

[WorthlessVirgin]

What seems creepy to you might seem logical to those Indian guys. I became the exact opposite of those Indian guys. I suppressed my sexual desire my entire life. In fact, not expressing my sexual desires ultimately led me to hit rock bottom and I've been there for over 12 years now. Being a shy virgin is the equivalent of being in solitary confinement. There is no fun in life if you don't take risks even if you fail. Outside of the internet, I have never hit on a girl and I deeply regret it. The main reason I never hit on girls is because I didn't want to bring dishonor to my family. I stopped caring about my own reputation a long time ago. But I made sure my bad rep was not enough to destroy my family's godlike reputation. Everyone in my family is amazing at everything, I don't want to bring them shame even if it kills me on the inside. At the same time, I wish I just had the courage to express my true self without hurting my siblings and parents. I've been dead in my mind for 12 years now. So, you shouldn't let these creepy Indian guys bother you. But if you see that they are hurting the girls they are hitting on, then you have every right to stop them. I can't stand guys who hurt girls physically and emotionally.

[Asker]

Im sorry to hear that dude, I mean, I'm asexual, so, i guess i can Semi understand where you are coming from ;). Don't put yourself down so hard, You're still young mate!. And, Its not that i hate these indian guys for doing it, I just feel sorry for the girls who have to put up with it, I can't imagine it being nice getting messages like ''hey bby ur sexy i want my dik in u call me''. It must suck for them :/, I guess its just a cultural difference tho rite? :). And i wish you luck matey! Im sure shit will work out for ya ;P

[MrShivam]

Well i am an Indian. I registered just to answer this question.
India has people with varied culture. If you pick 3 random guys in India, 1st from South India, 2nd from North India and the last one from North Eastern India, they won't remotely be similar in appearance forget the similarity in culture.
Such guys are -
. Mostly (not entirely) from isolated parts of India and are not vey well educated. Families (for instance in North Indian villages) are Orthodox with less freedom for girls so the boys there do not even talk a lot to girls.
According to me this happens because boys are more influenced by western culture (as they are more on social media) than girls (not many of them have smart phones). Boys want to talk, girls can't. Hence the creepiness.

Families with so less freedom to girls would equal around 7 to 8% of India i guess so don't start telling your friends that in India girls don't have freedom.
And you can find many good Indians too who are delight to be around (and not at all creepy).
I know the answer is long but it really hurt.

[Asker]

No i understand you dude, I wasn't saying all indian dudes were creepy, its just seems like on here, the vast majority of creepyness comes from indian guys. but i understand its not ALL indian guys. But yeah, it just sounds to me like its a cultural difference, Things that these guys from rural areas are saying, is just very innapropriate in western culture, even though they are not deliberately trying to do that (Infact they are trying to be the opposite), but unfortunately it comes off as creepy, I really appreciate your opinion tho!, its nice to here form an actual indian guy ;D

[MrShivam]

I guess the puzzle is solved then.

[GirlsLie]

Maybe this site is their only experience with women and I definitely think it's a culture thing because I also notice how they have issues with boundaries a lot when you don't want to speak to them anymore. I've noticed differences with other cultures/races as well when it comes to being approached by men.

[Asker]

Yeah, Sounds to me, From yourself and everyone else, This is just massive cultural differences. Damn, It realy makes you wonder how women are treated in india? :/

[GirlsLie]

Not very well from what i've read, plus the lack of exposure to women who act like women in the western culture do, that combination is probably bad lol

[Asker]

Well, Saying that, I can't even imagine how the females act in india, I would imagine in a very scared way right? Damn, Feminist groups should go over there and have a fucking field day! xD, Put themselves to some good use rather then pissing people off in the west haha

[GirlsLie]

I'm from the US and the entire culture is just different, i've read books and i've talked to women on the site and to me they're obviously oppressed. To me it's definitely needed in other places far worse, the thing is what do you do to change someone elses culture? You can't really go to other people's countries as an American woman and hold a rally lol. So I think a lot of them fixate on things in the US too much and become extremist. Feminist is such a broad term and people use extremist to describe feminist and it shouldn't be that way, some things need to be changed in the US still as far as society's acceptance/standards for women and for people in general do so I get why it's still needed here as well.

[Asker]

Yeah, If im being honest, In the US and UK, I really think there is no need for Feminism, I mean, Other then frontline military service, What can a guy actually do that a girl cannot right? nothing... Its not like 100 years ago where chicks couldnt work in like 90% of jobs or vote or anything. Things are equal, Feminism today is being very overkill, And radical feminism is actively trying to oppress dudes. I can't help but feel like their efforts would be better spend in these third world nations, Not trying to change their culture or anything, But, just educate them that women aren't just a piece of fuck meat over social media ya know?

[GirlsLie]

Yup, I agree with you. Honestly I wish more men and women would speak out about how women and people in general are treated in other countries and I guess holding a rally in the US would be a good start over ignoring it at least. I do think as far as jobs go that most things are even because where i'm from a woman has the ability to do anything a man can do pretty much but it's difficult to have 100% equality when it comes to men and women because the bottom line is we're still different genders and physical and even emotional differences still exist. So i've never been the kind of woman who picks things like that apart.

[GirlsLie]

The issues here in the US that I was referring to are mostly about double standards that still fall on women, how women are still shamed for things that men aren't but there are also expectations placed on men that shouldn't be there. To me most of the things like that, that go on in western culture are society acceptance problems/standards not really an equality problem.

[Asker]

''we're still different genders and physical and even emotional differences still exist''. I love that, I really do. It annoys me when people say ''its sexist how men can work in industry and women cant'' and stuff like that, Because, The simple fact of the matter is, Men, are biologically and naturally physically stronger (Usually) then then women (I understand there will always be exceptions to that, but im talking majorities), I mean, I work in construction, and, I can honestly say, i have never seen or heard of a female working in construction, and, its quite simply because, A) thats not a lifestyle girls want B) is a very physically demanding job. Its like how something like 90% of girls are nurses, and a also high number for teachers, its because girls like those roles, not because they are being oppresed into doing them. I hate how feminazis say ''oh its sexist how 90% of CEO's are male'', well yeah, but 99.99% of sewage and trash workers are male too... its not all good xD

[GirlsLie]

Lol, yeah it's really not. I used to work in a warehouse for 3 years part time while I had my full time job and it was the best job ever to me even though it was very physically demanding and there was another woman who worked there and she was a very hard worker as well but most of the women who came, left after a day or so. It's not for everyone, it's physically demanding, there's no social interactions and it's hot as hell and most women are more sociable and would enjoy other jobs, it's not a bad thing to just do those instead lol I've been a cocktail waitress forever now and I make good money but you don't see men going around in skirts and heels making a ton of tips doing what I do. I wish women would stop putting men on a pedestal and just accept that we're sometimes different and that different genders offer different things and it's perfectly ok to be strong in what your gender does.

[Asker]

I agree completely xD.

[GirlsLie]

You're only 16? I just noticed that. You're able to hold a good conversation over most men who are double your age lol

[Asker]

Haha, Eh, I'm not your typical guy haha. Eh, I like talking to chicks, Being Asexual, i have a lot more in common with them, so, its just chill xD. If i talk to girls, we can have good, productive conversation, if i talk to guys, im the victim of 'banter' for not being as horny as them xD. But thank you, Whilst i cannot say as im not your age, You seem to be a very cool 27 Year old xD.

[JoahZ10nT]

yes, every guy from India are creepy. except one guy that I knew he was pretty awesome. he was nothing like the other Indians...
Even in person India woman/man I simply can't like them... I don't want to be mean or anything like that but they do smell really bad.

[Asker]

''but they do smell really bad''. Damn dude, I have never noticed that xD.

[BradyLames]

that was really racist... blacks are creepy and smell bad,... But you guys dont tell them that because you're scared they will call you a racist and beat you Leave Indians alone... You said you can't like Indians that is a very awful thing to say Who do you think you are? lol Consider suicide you hateful animal

[SpongebobBeTHICC]

@BradyLames I don't think attacking another race for no damn reason helps your argument with Indians being normal. Just makes you look like a creep AND a racist a**hole. Leave blacks alone, what a hypocrite to call her hateful, you're doing the same f***ing thing.

[TheCommonFrancedude]

@BradyLames I agree with you on most of the things, I found some people mentioned 'bobs and vagene' and I wanted to mention Americans or commonly English directly ask for nud*s and they also send dic* picks they introduced po*n in a different way , like peeing pooping weird fetishes really ugly fetishes to the world , there are more female por* stars in the world than male just because of which the whole industry is targeted towards male mostly , they sell nud*s in a decent way called only fans so when these aren't considered ugly why do they Target Indian men *absolute racism* towards Indians by others and few Mideast countries people also suffer racism just because of these white chaps (not all) there are good people everywhere

[MissNowhere]

I don't know why that is, but I completely agree with you, the creepiest dudes always happen to be Indians.

[Asker]

Yeah, Im not being racist or anything, Its just an observation :/.

[MissNowhere]

Thanks!

[Asker]

No worries matey

[BradyLames]

it is racist though Because I can bet that if a NON Indian male did the same things an Indian guy did that you thought was creepy - you would be cool with it and think he was just being flirty or wildin out... You are prejudiced against them from the get go and dont give them a fair chance Which is wrong... All women should give Indian men a fair chance... Especially if you try so hard not to be racist to blacks who have done a lot more in America to earn a bad reputation

[GirlScout]

@BradyLames you meen like the Turks? They have the same attitude, yes it is racism to a degree but the attitude is caused by their culture and how they perceive ours. White girls are easy sluts, I've had so many many Asian men tell me this before grabbing me.

[BradyLames]

@GirlScout White girls being easy sluts is a stereotype cultivated from HIP HOP culture... Its a black American thing BLack Americans tought the world to denigrate white women... Indians and Asians are still repressed societys... Even casual dating is still an odd concept to them I dont like it when these sad American girls make excuses for blacks behaviour but seem to LOVE tarring all Indians and others with the same brush...

[GirlScout]

@BradyLames no it isn't, that is not true. White girls being easy sluts is also an Asian thing, for sure in Britain. I have had countless encounters to verify that there is a stereotype that Asian men buy into about white girls fucking anyone. By Asian men I mean Indian or Pakistani. I don't really know what you are referring to with that last statement sorry.

[GirlScout]

Hang on, now you're being racist! Were you not just complaining of racism before? Are you Indian?

[BradyLames]

@GirlScout you sound British The British are well known through out the world for being racist towards Indians - for historical reasons and because Gandhi ended the British empire I can see why you would have a prejudice against Indians and be hateful of them I pity you... Please consider ending your life you sad, cruel hateful person

[GirlScout]

@BradyLames ah, so you ARE a racist then, you just kinda proved it... we have an enormous population of Indian people, they have been part of our culture for a long time so don't be so ignorant in your asshole assumptions. I've been sexually assaulted quite a few times, I can tell you now 8/10 it's an Asian guy who then calls me a slut, easy, trashy white girl. So fuck you with your pathetic attempt to make me out to be the bad person. I'm not the ones sexually assaulting people, but I suppose that;'s Ok because they are Indian yes? That makes it all cool? Fucking moron.

[BradyLames]

@GirlScout So , are you saying that I am a racist for acknowledging that Britain has one of the most racist histories in the world regarding Indians? If you are saying that then I can say that you might actually be retarded or autistic... Shame on you. You are a typical British racist... Are you typing this stuff whilst stuffing your face with Indian curry? You are a truly tragic person and I feel bad for all of the innocent Indians who have the bad luck of running into you The world would be nicer with less people like you. Always know that. Indian hater

[GirlScout]

@BradyLames you are tarring a whole nation with one brush while complaining of me doing the same, can you not see how ducking hypocritical that is? Yeah, I'm sure you feel real sorry for the men who assaulted me. Real sorry for their plight, such a hard world for them to live in not being able to assault the women they want without fear of backlash. I should have just let them fuck my white ass yeah? Because I'm a racist white bitch? Fuck you and your hypocrisy.

[BradyLames]

@GirlScout lol no Im saying that you seem to have a hatred for Indians on a deeper level. As a British girl you viewed Indians as inferior to you from a very young age. Your parents probably mocked Indians in front of you since before you were five... Now you've grown up and in your mind Indian men are still inferior, lesser people who deserve to be treated worse. So when an indian guy harmlessly approaches you in a flirty manner , you instantly ramp it up to that bad Indian creep is trying to do awful things to me... You would not have this thinking towards another race of man if he did it... Heck if a black guy assaulted you you would probably thank him kindly... You are a racist and like I've said before you probably shouldn't be alive today... Indian haters are the worst types of racists because Indians only want a fair shot in life, they dont want handouts in life like some of the other races do Shame on you

[BradyLames]

@GirlScout aha I thought my last post was accurate

[Rae235]

@BradyLames As an Indian girl, i would rather say- Indian guys ARE creepy. They are way too forward, and that's my experience.

[BradyLames]

This is super racist and offensive... Because you wouldn't hate on a Non Indian for being flirty so why is it so bad for an Indian guy to flirt?

Is it some deep seeded hatred of brown skinned fellows from India? Did your moron parents tell you to hate them injuns?

Hating on them for their supposed culture is wrong, especially when you ignore the amount of domestic violence in America and other western nations...

Why did you not bring blacks up? Blacks account for hundreds of thousands of rapes every year in South Africa... they made south africa the rape capital of the world

Shame on you you sad racist

[Asker]

Dont be so fucking sensitive buddy. Its not super racist and offensive, Its just the fucking truth. Dont think i have some bane against indian lads or something, Ill happily sit here and say yeah, The majority of criminals in the US are black, And yeah, Whites have commited some of the most prolonged horrific things in history (Slavery/Colonialism etc) I ain't racist mate, Haha, Im just curious. And, C'mon, Dont put the blame on South Africa, You know, In india, A rape claim is reported every 20 minutes... 20 !, And thats just the ones that are reported, How many victims actually tell the police? That number could be every 5 minutes... Dont take it just from me, Look at all the many women who have replied to this and sharing there experiences, Notice how all are negative and thought the guy was creepy... I'm not being racist, Im just stating that there are clear, MASSIVE cultural differences in regards to flirting/dating, that in the west are considering EXTREMELY creepy.

[BradyLames]

You fuckwit Are you actually retarded? South Africa and Sweden are known as the rape capitals of the world because they have small populations and IMMENSE amount of rapes... Im not sure if you finished school but if you google rape per capita South Africa is number one... America has a higher rape rate then India... Why is that? Are you really saying Indians wouldn't report rapes? Why not, they are the most conservative culture in the world... We all saw them give the death penalty to those young guys in the Delhi rape... Which was JUST ONE case by the way... How many times in America does that shit happen... Heck blacks in America rape more by far... You are a fucking racist... I can't believe you can sit here and try and explain away your obvious hatred... If you are not smart enough to see the bullshit that the media is doing to Indian men then you are retarded... What is shocking is how nobody wants to shame the Africans over their rapes and crimes against their women

[BradyLames]

And the idea these Indians are creepy is largely an Internet myth and psychological mind game... Because if that was true, we would see a HUGE amount of so called creeps sexually assaulting American girls But we dont... And you know that we dont... So you can put your KKK hood away for a second and leave good races like Indians alone... If the Indians didn't come to America, you or me wouldn't be able to use our iphones or go on facebook So cut the crap you sad tragic mother fucker Why dont you have some balls and call black guys creepy? You know they are the rapists of our world but you dont want to have that fight do you, you white cuckold... LOL Indians are noble and sincere with a rich culture... THeyre nothing like you lost souls in America

[BradyLames]

Plus if you had a fucking brain you would realise Indias population is the second largest in the world so off course heaps of shit can be twisted with the stats... South Africa has only 50 million people but has MORE rapes than India by a landslide And dont fucking say theyre not reporting them... The Indian women report every bloody thing... You racist kunt... Go kiss up to black guys you white cuckold... Pathetic bastard... Just cos indians are successful is no reason to hate on them

[SpongebobBeTHICC]

@BradyLames You're honestly the worst person I've met on this site. You're a hypocrite, calling whites racist for not giving you bobs and vagene, and then get mad because whites date blacks. And they're the racist ones. Ok buddy, I guess interracial relationships should only happen for Indians and Whites, would that make you happy? Go fuck yourself, buddy, maybe the reason girls are rejecting you isn't because you're Indian, its because you're a racist hypocrite, and I'm betting you're ugly as hell too. And whose fault is that? The Americans because they didn't give you bob pics? Do you realize how dumb you sound? That you get mad when whites get with blacks? Honestly, fuck you. You're not making it any better by trying to lower people's views on blacks to make you seem in anyway dateable. Not going to happen, you're a terrible person, and you'll probably be single forever, considering how hateful you are. I can tell you're envious of blacks, and it's honestly sad.

[GirlScout]

White women give sex up easily they think so they think they can just approach us and we will give it up. Clash of cultures and extremely poor social skills... and a lack of respect for women I've found.

[heavensgift2girls]

The more sexually repressed a society is, the more socially awkward guys become about sex. Indian guys can't talk about issues of sex with other people in their culture, much less other women, so they come to the internet where they can find people that they believe have different views about sex and talk with them so they can find an outlet for their sexuality. If on the other hand the guy comes from a culture where it isn't a big deal for a woman to walk around topless, the guys aren't sexually repressed and aren't nearly as likely to come off as creepy.

[Jxpxtxr]

I totally agree with you, I also think it's a cultural thing because they almost always happen to be like this, but in their defence I can say that arabs are in no war inferior when it comes to creeping my out lol - I have this one indian 'fan' on twitter www..

[Asker]

Yeah, Makes you feel for the women of india tho, If this is how they act on the internet, I can't even imagine how they act in real :/.

[Jxpxtxr]

Well india is officially the country with the highest number of rapes so..

[Asker]

Mhmmm, I'd love to see FEMEN or some shit over there, They would have a fuckin field day xD.

[Jxpxtxr]

but changing the mindset of a whole nation is almost impossible to do in an instant, let's just hope they'll evolve with time and economy and learn to respect their women more

[Jxpxtxr]

haha YESSS

[BradyLames]

so do you hold such prejudices against other races? I bet you dont... Is an Indian man not allowed to flirt like any other male in this world? I bet you wouldn't be upset if a black or white guy did that would you? You would probably like it... That explains your hate and racism... in your mind an Indian male who happens to flirt (which is a normal thing) is somehow creepy and awful Shame on you. This world would be a much better place without you in it

[BradyLames]

What on earth are you talking about? Who is teaching you this hateful crap? Have you been to South Africa? The amount of rapes there is so shocking the police dont even take reports anymore... India had ONE major rape case and those guys got the death sentence... not even in America do rapists get death you sad racist ass

[Jxpxtxr]

@BradyLames lol what the hell is wrong with you - I'm simply talking from my experience lol I wish you were a girl and would receive all those messages about Indian (yes, 90% of them is Indian!) guys who simple message you dick picks or tell you how they need to "masterbat" - I'm sorry but that is not flirting, it's frankly sexual harassment.

[Jxpxtxr]

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[BradyLames]

It doesn't matter. The point is do you view Indian men so badly that in your mind you instantly get creeped out if even ONE of them SLIGHTLY attempts to flirt? Because black guys are out here doing MUCH more aggressive stunts than a few harmless tweets on twitter, yet you racists dont seem to have a problem with tht. Hell you even make excuses for blacks when they rape and abuse women at huge rates in America Leave Indian men alone... I've seen their struggles... You white girls are really prejudiced and hateful toward them Stop doing yoga if you dont like Indians !

[Jxpxtxr]

@BradyLames lol bye

[silverfeline]

I chalk it up to cultural ignorance. I'm quite sure the ones that are westernized act right. Lol I had a conversational debate/argument with an Indian guy about this. He thinks all women are shallow because they have standards. None of his arguments surprised me since I know how guys with his mindset think. Brb All women are shallow bitches because they don't want me.

[Lauren2019]

Yes some are creepy by not respecting my personal space much like the racist whites I encounter who think I don’t deserve basic respect. I have experienced creepiness from different types of men but from Indian men, it’s a special type of creepy.

[KAZ-2Y5]

i have noticed creepy guys like yesterday some 35 year old guy ask me what turns me on and i assumed it was because i am 18 making me legal and i told him off and he got mad at me for rejecting him WTF? but then i saw him hitting on a 14 year old so my age has nothing to do with his creepiness i don't know if he was indian i was not paying attention to that

[sherbearee]

I hate the generalization, though I won't deny what you said. To be honest, if the guy who's Indian grew up in western culture, he wouldn't be "creepy." It's just a lot of guys who are from other places do no understand culture here, or are trolling/looking for a sext buddy.
That being said, I've gotten inappropriate msgs from caucasians too.

[Bards]

I get messaged by them a lot but I was told that many don't know how to apporach women in general because they weren't taught how to

[Asker]

Mhmm, Sounds just like a Cultural difference to me ;)

[Bards]

Yeah most likely. a lot of them are focused on academics and doing good in life financially and job wise. No wonder why so many indian kids are in advanced and IB classes. The westernized ones aren't bad like the ones in India when it comes to this though

[Asker]

Orite i see ;)

[Eugene]

Generally, they rarely get laid before marriage.
Also often you pretty much have to "bribe" parents of a girl in order for them to give her away.

Because of that they are quite frustrated sexually and therefore tend to lose their shit when they see a cute girl somewhere online.

[Asker]

Orite haha xD.

[muspelhem_5]

All guys are creepy. Indian guys just suck at hiding it.

[I_am_repulsive]

That's dependant on the person

[Diego9O]

It`s all about the society they live in where women is seen as: inferior than men. Sadly India is decades backward in human wrights, a lot of guys over there haves no respect for woman so it shouldn't surprise you.

[tantanyasf]

I don't know but it's annoying , I have nothing against Indian guys but it's just creepy and annoying.

[Krushhbrownies]

They have such big balls to do this. They're very straight forward. Now If only they master first how to properly use their big balls they have they wouldn't be seen such creeps.

[Asker]

This^ xD

[bubbletrouble]

That's just eastern ones

[Not_Helping]

You've got 500,000,000 competitors in India. You learn real quick not to be shy.

[Asker]

There is shy, Then there is just blatantly creepy and rude :/.

[Not_Helping]

I prefer the term "Dominant" or "Strong-willed". I know what I want. Why bobble around wasting time on prospects? It's a yes or a no.

[Asker]

yes, but there is a better way to go about it then ''hey ur hot lets fuk here's my email''

[Not_Helping]

And what way is that?

[Asker]

>Your a girl >You recieve ''hey bby ur wel sexi i won't my dik in u call me 12345578'' > Would you want to even talk to him, Let alone have sex with him? i thought not...

[Not_Helping]

Hold on, first, is he hot? Second, do I want his dick in me? If the answer to these two questions is yes, then yes.

[hypno-trip]

I think Indian guys are funny. I'm not a girl so they don't bother me at all.

[astroidblues]

definitely a cultural thing. it seems like indian are scared to approach members of the opposite sex in person which is why they have arranged marriages and things like that. being overly forward online is probably their way of making up for that

[GymFlow]

Well not all indian guys are awkward. Take me more example. I try my best to communicate with other and i make sure im not being to forward, also I have my own youtube channel and i seem to fit in just fine. With that being said i agree that SOME indian guys are creepy. I don't know why but that's just how to are. Also please don't just judge an entire race just because you have ran into some awkward people from the particular race.