And what I don't get is if he thinks he's such an asshole why tell me he's there for me whenever I need him? I'm talking about my ex who just finally admitted that he doesn't care to make things work. Then said he's an asshole and proud of it. Yet he doesn't leave me just standing there because I don't want to leave yet and keeps hugging me. I know a relationship isn't possible but Im just wondering if he does care about me.