Girls don't know just how easy they have it lol. I see girls on here all the time complaining about how they never had a date yet they've never asked anyone out in their life. It would be so much better if it was a 50/50 effort from both genders.
i agree with that
Why did you reject him the first time and why did you change your mind?
i didn't really reject him at all, i said i couldn't get to the place he wanted to go that day, but i think he took it as rejection :(
Maybe you should just tell him that then. He'll probably be happy to know he wasn't rejected.
i've tried and tried lol
What did he say?
he said it's ok
If he still seems a bit crushed, be a little bit more assertive. Tell him that you actually are interested and would like to see him. Make him feel wanted. Most women think that makes them look desperate but there are ways to do it without coming across as desperate.
Thank you! That helps a lot. I'll keep trying, I really like him so hope I haven't messed up too bad
No problem. Hope it works out for you :)
what about if she seemed into you, but said she couldn't get to the place where you wanted to go out that day?
yeah that's reasonable. personally i wouldn't take that as a rejection but i would wonder why she didn't suggest another place to go instead that she was able to make it to.
i feel you! that's me exactly
I know that feeling, in the end he got married to someone else and i regret it so much. I guess the only thing we can learn that if a genuinely nice guy comes along, take the chance, you never know. I sit and as i get older, just wonder what might have been... if he is still single, go and ask him, see what he says
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okay thank you =)
Ok, thanks =)
do you think if she made an effort to get to know you more you'd change your mind, or still a no?
Depends on how much of an effort, really. I'd be pissed off about being turned down though and likely out for revenge at that point.
Hm It depends entirely on our relation and how she rejected me
say if you didn't know her well, and she said she couldn't make it to the place you wanted to go on that day?
Then yes sure.But if it was a situation where she's like, I'm sorry 'But I'm not interested. And if she'd THEN come to me, I'd turn my back on her
Don't mind me, I'm just really jaded 😊
no, i can totally understand some people would say no in that situation
Ya, I've had at least a couple of girls pass over me, and then come back when plan "a" didn't work out...