Guys, how or what do you do after a girl ignores your texts?

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Answer 1

mangaka92

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Ignore her of course. If she wants to act like a little kid, then I have better things to do than to try to ask her what's wrong or play games of trying to make things right. If something's bothering her, she needs to tell me. I'm not fishing for answers. I'll ask a few times to make sure she's alright and if all she responds with is "fine..." then I'm going to act like she's fine.

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Burento143

+1 y
Why do all guys think were playing games like yeah some gurls do that on purpose but not all of them :( and yeah i guess you're right about telling guys whats wrong, but what if its obvious why theyre ignoring you?

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mangaka92

+1 y
Because I've never met a woman who didn't do it because of that. It's by far the norm.
I'd do the same if it was obvious why they were ignoring me. If I asked them several times what was wrong, and knew exactly what was wrong because they made it really obvious and I wanted to talk to them about it, but they still just said "nothing..." then I'd eventually give up and then just ignore them back until they stopped. If a girl isn't going to take my questions of concern seriously, then I'm not going to take her problem seriously.

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Answer 2

Burento143

Why do all guys think were playing games like yeah some gurls do that on purpose but not all of them :( and yeah i guess you're right about telling guys whats wrong, but what if its obvious why theyre ignoring you?

Answer 3

mangaka92

Because I've never met a woman who didn't do it because of that. It's by far the norm.
I'd do the same if it was obvious why they were ignoring me. If I asked them several times what was wrong, and knew exactly what was wrong because they made it really obvious and I wanted to talk to them about it, but they still just said "nothing..." then I'd eventually give up and then just ignore them back until they stopped. If a girl isn't going to take my questions of concern seriously, then I'm not going to take her problem seriously.

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AleDeEurope

Master

I would obviously ignore her. I don't deal with stupid immature behavior. I want a woman, not a little kid.

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Burento143

+1 y
Do all men think this way

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AleDeEurope

+1 y
Unfortunately no, many men will crawl for the girl, but because there are many men that lack self-respect. If someone ignores you that means they don't respect you, and I, and most men, aren't gonna try something with someone that disrespect us.

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Burento143

+1 y
What if we ignore you for a reason? Girls dont ignore men to disrespect them or to make them feel bad on purpose. Or play a game like all men are thinking is what we do when we ignore them

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AleDeEurope

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What other reason could it be? Why not solve the problem instead of ignoring him? If I don't know why you're ignoring me, I'm gonna think it's because you're playing games. I'm not a mind reader, so I'm not gonna message you again until you come tell me why you ignored me.

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Burento143

+1 y
Its not healthy to think that way. And i guess its understandable why you dont like it but you should know that the reason we ignore you its something you did.

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AleDeEurope

+1 y
It's not healthy? If we don't know why, we're gonna assume something. It's worse to ignore without sayong something. If we did something wrong, you should tell us instead of ignoring us cause we don't always know if you're gonna get offended or no, so if you say nothing we're gonna assume we djd nothing wrong. Most of the times girls get offended by the slightest thing.
If your solution to a problem is ignoring him, you're gonna end up alone. We all screw up sometimes, we're humans, ignoring him is just acting immature, and I assure you, most guys aren't gonna deal with that childish behavior.

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Burento143

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Oh im not ignoring anyone im just wondering what guys do when girls ignore them but i do end up ignoring them after they say something stupid. And im pretty sure guys would be smart enoguh to know what they did wrong. If not then theyre just plain stupid. We dont always have to talk things out, we ignore guys for many reasons like you could have saud simething so suprising that we dont have anything to say or if you say something just plain stupid

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Burento143

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You keep saying that guys dont know and they can't assume why we ignore them. Its obviously something you guys did.

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Burento143

+1 y
Guys solve things by saying "K" and girls solve things by giving the silent treatment.

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Burento143

+1 y
If a guy ignored me i would understand that he is mad or annoyed by something i said or needs his space

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Burento143

+1 y
I know its bad we ignore you, but again you guys say k and we say nothing wheb we are angry or just dont want to talk anymore

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AleDeEurope

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Yeah, but like I said, sometimes we say something we don't think it's wrong but you get mad.
You're 16, you deal with teenagers and act like one so I don't blame for the way you or the guys you meet act, but when you're out of HS you'll realize silence treatment is just gonna bring you problems, cause like I said, I'm not gonna deal with that kind of behavior, you're the one that's mad, not me.

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Burento143

+1 y
I guess you're right, sorry for acting kind of selfish and making this argument go on for so long.

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AleDeEurope

+1 y
Don't worry :)

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Burento143

+1 y
😊😊

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Answer 5

Burento143

Do all men think this way

Answer 6

AleDeEurope

Unfortunately no, many men will crawl for the girl, but because there are many men that lack self-respect. If someone ignores you that means they don't respect you, and I, and most men, aren't gonna try something with someone that disrespect us.

Answer 7

Burento143

What if we ignore you for a reason? Girls dont ignore men to disrespect them or to make them feel bad on purpose. Or play a game like all men are thinking is what we do when we ignore them

Answer 8

AleDeEurope

What other reason could it be? Why not solve the problem instead of ignoring him? If I don't know why you're ignoring me, I'm gonna think it's because you're playing games. I'm not a mind reader, so I'm not gonna message you again until you come tell me why you ignored me.

Answer 9

Burento143

Its not healthy to think that way. And i guess its understandable why you dont like it but you should know that the reason we ignore you its something you did.

Answer 10

AleDeEurope

It's not healthy? If we don't know why, we're gonna assume something. It's worse to ignore without sayong something. If we did something wrong, you should tell us instead of ignoring us cause we don't always know if you're gonna get offended or no, so if you say nothing we're gonna assume we djd nothing wrong. Most of the times girls get offended by the slightest thing.
If your solution to a problem is ignoring him, you're gonna end up alone. We all screw up sometimes, we're humans, ignoring him is just acting immature, and I assure you, most guys aren't gonna deal with that childish behavior.

Answer 11

Burento143

Oh im not ignoring anyone im just wondering what guys do when girls ignore them but i do end up ignoring them after they say something stupid. And im pretty sure guys would be smart enoguh to know what they did wrong. If not then theyre just plain stupid. We dont always have to talk things out, we ignore guys for many reasons like you could have saud simething so suprising that we dont have anything to say or if you say something just plain stupid

Answer 12

Burento143

You keep saying that guys dont know and they can't assume why we ignore them. Its obviously something you guys did.

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Burento143

Guys solve things by saying "K" and girls solve things by giving the silent treatment.

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Burento143

If a guy ignored me i would understand that he is mad or annoyed by something i said or needs his space

Answer 15

Burento143

I know its bad we ignore you, but again you guys say k and we say nothing wheb we are angry or just dont want to talk anymore

Answer 16

AleDeEurope

Yeah, but like I said, sometimes we say something we don't think it's wrong but you get mad.
You're 16, you deal with teenagers and act like one so I don't blame for the way you or the guys you meet act, but when you're out of HS you'll realize silence treatment is just gonna bring you problems, cause like I said, I'm not gonna deal with that kind of behavior, you're the one that's mad, not me.

Answer 17

Burento143

I guess you're right, sorry for acting kind of selfish and making this argument go on for so long.

Answer 18

AleDeEurope

Don't worry :)

Answer 19

Burento143

😊😊

Answer 20

diarrhea

Xper 5

I come on here, go Anonymous and post a bunch of questions about why a girl would ignore my texts and what it means

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Burento143

+1 y
Aw 😊 i do too

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Answer 21

Burento143

Aw 😊 i do too

Answer 22

Noxifer626 | 279 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

I wonder if I should text her anyways, and if so, what to text her.
Maybe she doesn't want to talk right now, or just doesn't want to talk with me specifically, or maybe she's expecting me to take the initiative.

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Burento143

+1 y
Hm interesting

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Answer 23

Burento143

Hm interesting

Answer 24

TheGreyMan

Xper 5

How do you know the texts are being ignored? Not everyone can respond right away all the time.

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Burento143

+1 y
I guess :( well what if they dont reply after days? And the only time they reply is when you ask why aren't you replying?

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TheGreyMan

+1 y
That's just disrespectful and you could probably do without it.

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Answer 25

Burento143

I guess :( well what if they dont reply after days? And the only time they reply is when you ask why aren't you replying?

Answer 26

TheGreyMan

That's just disrespectful and you could probably do without it.

Answer 27

youssefalei

Xper 3

i ignore back , and find someone and have some fun til she text me
then i ignore her and keep having fun
til she ask me why i ignore her
and then i tell her ask your self why did u ignore me
she will say her reason
ill take my time to think and forgive
then ill go bk to normal

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Answer 28

DanteSparda | 221 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Fuck this shit..!
I've got better things to do than playing mind games with a girl with a brain of a toddler.

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Burento143

+1 y
Why do boys always think girls are "Playing Mind Games"?

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DanteSparda

+1 y
Yeah because most of the girls (excluding some) glued to their cell phones for whole day.
You can just tell the guy that you're busy/can't contact him currently instead of ignoring him.
It only takes a few seconds to type and reply that back to him.

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Burento143

+1 y
You dont get it, ignoring as in after a guy says something stupid

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DanteSparda

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That's even more childish.
If you want to say something, just say directly instead of ignoring.
Guys aren't mind readers who can read what's going on in your mind from a distance.

If a girl pulls this type of shit on me, first I'd call her out on this and if she repeats, I'd cut her ass out from everything.

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Answer 29

Burento143

Why do boys always think girls are "Playing Mind Games"?

Answer 30

DanteSparda

Yeah because most of the girls (excluding some) glued to their cell phones for whole day.
You can just tell the guy that you're busy/can't contact him currently instead of ignoring him.
It only takes a few seconds to type and reply that back to him.

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Burento143

You dont get it, ignoring as in after a guy says something stupid

Answer 32

DanteSparda

That's even more childish.
If you want to say something, just say directly instead of ignoring.
Guys aren't mind readers who can read what's going on in your mind from a distance.

If a girl pulls this type of shit on me, first I'd call her out on this and if she repeats, I'd cut her ass out from everything.

Answer 33

Anonymous

It has happened to me. I didn't try to find out but one time I tried to start conversation like we normally did. Still no reply... ignored back. Such childish attitude, I hate.

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OrdinaryGentleman

Guru

When a girl ignores my text I immediately think how mature is this girl, and then question my resolve to date her.

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QuestionMan | 297 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Ignore back. There is no point in trying to figure out why she hasn't responded unless it's been more than a few days.

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AllThatSweetJazz | 2.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Try a couple more times to find out why, then get ignored again and feel super shitty and ticked off.

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AllThatSweetJazz

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Apparently most guys just ignore her back, but I don't want to give in to the games so I just try to cut through by being direct. Maybe that looks desperate, but I thought it was a confident thing to be direct.

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Answer 37

AllThatSweetJazz

Apparently most guys just ignore her back, but I don't want to give in to the games so I just try to cut through by being direct. Maybe that looks desperate, but I thought it was a confident thing to be direct.

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blondfrog | 2.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

I don't text if she really likes me she would talk to me in person

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