So if a guy did that to me only about my small breasts, it's normal that I get offended?
If someone insults you it's natural to take offense. If you don't you've got some major self esteem problems.
sure you can get offended. it's a rude thing to say... and then if I were you I'd simply disassociate myself from that person
Kind of depends if it's a sore spot or not. It could really hurt.
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That is about me but the case is the other way around. He commented on my small breasts. That's one of my insecurities and I didn't ask for his opinion. After he commented, I said "ouch, thank you" (and tried to laugh it off) and he said "well just being honest". If it matters, he's 37
Ugh, you don't really need to be with someone like that. He sounds immature, not for having his opinion, but for rubbing it in your face.
Exactly. Before that happened, I did say I like brutal honesty. But I think there's a fine line between being honest and being rude. Honest: if I ask his opinion and he tells him the truth. Rude: commenting on someone's body knowing that something like that is very sensitive. Thank you for your opinion.
Look, even for those of us who like it (I am the same) there is a time and place for shutting up and deferring the question, as the brutal honestly will do no good, not to you, not to him (unless you count his statement as a revelation of true character allowing you to boot him out being a net good). He should know this at 37.
I would certainly say so, yes.I don't believe that it's ever acceptable to insult another person's body, especially if it's something very personal, such as breasts, vagina, butt, penis, etc.Anyone that does that is very rude.
So if a guy did that to me only about my small breasts, it's not normal that I get offended? Because it's one of my insecurities.
But why would it bother you what strangers or even friends think even though they're just pointing out the obviousBoobs are attractice regardless of aize anyway
I guess because I'm not a kind of person that walks around pointing people's flaws so when I met one like that I felt weird. But I think it was a very unnecessary thing to criticize someone's flaw after he slept with me. I didn't tell him that I thought his penis was small. Anyway thanks
Well obviously he's a dick.. A very very small dickNext time someone does that to you.. Point out their flaws
What if yours was actually small and you've always felt bad about it?
I've never felt that way about mine, so I wouldn't know. If she didn't like my dick I'd question her as to why she was dating me.
Ofc you have every right to be offended. Some may say that you're overreacting, but it's personal when it comes to your body
Yes, for sure
That's actually what happened to me!! I asked because I wanted to know if it was normal for me to think that he was being a jerk. After he said that I said "ouch" and he said "well just being honest". But I think it was not an honesty. It was a criticism. And I didn't ask for it.
"Well just being honest" is the stupidest excuse. Honesty is a good thing but putting someone down for absolutely no reason has nothing to do with being honest. He might be intentionally trying to bring down your self esteem, so if I were you Id just move on and have nothing to do with them in the future.
So if a guy did that to me only about my small breasts, it's normal that I get offended? And they are actually small.
Yes, its downright mean to say that if you're actually small.
No it's banter... neither of you are supposed to be offended you're both supposed to understand that what the other is saying is in good fun...
Yes absolutely it is normal that you get offended!!
If you feel that way and don't like anyone to tell u that then yes.
Possibly (or even probably) though it depends how he did it and how he expressed it.I honestly find small breasts significantly hotter than large ones. If I knew a partner was insecure about them, I'd try to be careful about expressing how small they were, even though it might seem hot to me, because it might bother her (or not, perhaps it would help her feel good about them, which is why you'd have to see).But if your partner is of the 'i'd prefer large breasts but it doesn't matter much and i tease her about them' school, it's pretty insensitive.And if he's the sort of guy who goes on about large breasts while telling you that yours are small, you might want to consider dumping his ass and finding a guy who'd appreciate you more. A -lot- of guys actively prefer small breasts.
Yes, u r right.
My dick is so long, I use it as a scarf during winter. But Im not allowed to get an erection because I would suffocate myself when I have it on as a scarf.
Hahahahahhahahaha thanks for the laugh