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It depends on how sick she seems to be. There are all sorts of different levels when someone is sick. There have been times when I was sick I was still in the mood, and there are times when I have been sick and wasn't in the mood. I don't see the problem in your partner asking. It doesn't mean they don't care if you aren't feeling good.You think women never ask guys to do stuff when we don't feel good? Women ask us to do stuff all the time when we feel crappy. If we don't feel up to it we simply say, we don't feel up to it right now. You can't feel what your partner is feeling, so the only way to know for sure is to ask them if they are up to something and trusting in them to let you know. If you get upset when he makes his desires known, then you are telling him you don't support honest communication in your relationship.
He probably doesn't realize the extent of how much you feel crappy.
Well I would not ask for sex from her when she is not feeling well.. I would just want to know if there is anything I could do to help her get better.. get her a glass of water maybe or even fluff the pillow on witch her head is resting on.. but that is just me.. some guys would I am pretty sure ask for sex even knowing how she felt as some just want sex above anything else, and they just do not care about her feelings what so ever.. these guys in that case have no morals
Sounds selfish to me. Id come over to bring my girlfriend soup. But the idea of putting my needs before hers while she is feeling bad doesn't make sense.
If he knew your sick and still asked to get laid that's just messed up, he should offer to take care of you
No. But my girlfriend had a stomach ache the other day and still gave me a handjob. And that's the kind of dedication a man notices.
Maybe telling him that would be helpful, he can't read your mind right
If you're puking/shitting yourself then no, but if you're just stuffed up/strep throat then yeah.
That depends. Is it contagious? Does she feel well enough how to do it? If it's contagious, that's a no-no.
I probably would, but I'd also be okay if she's not interested. I know *I* often like sex when I'm sick (the intimacy makes me feel warm and fuzzy), but sometimes I just want to crawn into bed and forget the rest of the world exists, her included.
No, out of respect for her, because I know how horrible it is to have a nasty flu
No beause then i will get sick and have to stay home and lay around sick all day not worth it
Tell him you're sick and to fuck off. Why is that so hard?
What's the big deal? All you gotta do is lay there.
If both of you are horny then go for it. But if your not really feeling it then be honest with him, he will understand
If you don't want sex, it's simple: just tell him. Asking is never a bad thing.
Pretty much yes. Pretty much.
No, I'd come over and take care of her.
Tell him you're not down lol?
Of course not.
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