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Why do men hate when women want to touch their butts?

My S/O hates when I slap or grab his butt and I wonder why? He tells me because he only likes to grab or slap mine but his is off limits.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Some men are pretty sensitive about their butts. I find it a little odd as well because I don't mind having mine slapped, grabbed, or fondled. But some guys have NICE asses and you want to do the same.

    Part of it can be because some men may be conditioned to think that any action around their backdoor can lead to the possibility of people thinking they're not completely straight (like a lot of men who DON'T want to get prostate exams. Straight foolishness). Others just don't like having their butts touched... haha.

  • Some people don't like to be touched. It's a bit wrong of him to assume he can only grab and slap yours, and you can't. If a guy said that and I was already not comfortable with him touching me in places, I will ask him to please stop slapping or grabbing. Tit for tat.

    • BITCH TOUCH MY ASS AND IM PINCHNG YOUR TEETH OUT. IM GRABBING YOUR ONLY AND TRY TO TOUCH MINE

  • I have heard of guys not wanting their butt to be touched at all. Some because they think it is gay actually the reason I only ever hear of is gay. In their view only a gay man wants their ass touched.
    It is so dumb but that is the reason I have heard of...

    • Wow! I love it when a woman touches my ass. It just feels so so good for me when women touch it. Maybe I am different.

  • Mine doesn't mind, he just kinda jumps lol. I kinda pinch it though haha

    • I want to find a girlfriend that pinches and grabs my ass too lol. I hope I find her one day.

    • Lucky... 😑

Most Helpful Guys

  • It does not bother me at all if a women checks out my bottom.. it is a bit flattering to me, but she could be checking something else out as well, like maybe what I am wearing.. and even if that was the case and she mentioned it or asked about them I would tell her the truth as I have nothing to hide.. I am honest guy.. long as it was a women that drew my attention.. and not just some person that will go and tell all her friends what she saw

  • i think for me personally i don't hate it but it's kind of uncomfortable since i'm not accustomed to it.

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  • Any girl I am dating is more than welcome to touch my ass. I love my ass being touched, felt, grabbed, pinched and felt by girls I am dating. It wakes my sex drive up like crazy when girls I am dating do this and gets me more horny, aroused and thinking naughty thoughts than words can describe. Any girl I date knows that her touching my ass drives me crazy with sexual excitement instantly. It just feels wonderful to have her hands on it.

  • I immediately believe it is a perpetrator trying to steal my wallet. The last female to slap my butt was maced.

  • I don't mind at all. And when i am single, I appreciate that women want to touch my butt and am not offended by women in general touching me. Of course when I am not single, it should just be my SO, and I hope she touches me a lot!

  • Sounds like he might have some 'Gay fear' like if you slap, or grab, you might want to peg him, and he's freaking out?
    Do you just do it playfully, or would you like some fantasy, pegging play, when you can penetrate him, with a toy?
    More and more women are wanting to try that, and explore the 'boundaries' of the "Equality" in their relationships.

  • They feel uncomfortable lol

  • Because that is a war zone and we don't want you getting hurt :)

  • No but it’s more of I’m the one in control

  • Bc they dont squat. I squat, spank me all u want

    @tony72722
    @polocrew

    • Lol consultants cheeks are pretty red still from last night. Upload a rear gloot spread to show GaG how red your cheeks are bro.

    • @tony72722 hahahahahaha "rate my red swollen arse"

    • Some chick last night uploaded a pic of her tits. His nipples were fricken huge. Straight pancake nips. Said " Are these normal?" LOL. I linked you but I assume it got deleted before you saw it.

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  • I dunno why they'd feel weird about that but just know this... If you smack my ass ladies be prepared for yours to be smacked too. :)

    I can't help it I like kinky stuff lol XD

  • I wouldn't care if my partner wanted to touch my ass. I wouldn't want it from random girls though..

  • do they? i personally love it

  • Lol what a pussy

  • Touch away, I say... its nice.

  • You can touch it as a prelude to tossing our salad. Otherwise it's just annoying.

  • Women can grab my butt all want. I love it.

  • he's probably a contact farter. its a rare but serious cindition where the mere sensation of a hand on his gluteus maximums cases a prompt release of flatulence.

  • No sh@t because we are MEN. We grab your butts, we put the dick inside of you. We dominate you, you want to do all that go find yourself a gay ni#%a you could even finger him and all that extra if you want.. We are STRAIGHT ALPHA MALES I TEAR THAT ASS UP ALL THAT BUTT SHIT GO TO THE GAY NIGG&# FOR ALL THAT BUTT TOUCHING SH$&

    • Well... I only like 💯% manly man, but I like to be able to touch my man's butt. Not frequently but sometimes playfully, or if we were to mank love it pulls him in deeper, or massaging it (the cheeks only) I wouldn't do what should do to my but like grab it often, rub himself against it, kiss it slap it, jiggle it, or put something in it if he wanted. I think it's okay only for the 2 basic things I mentioned.

  • It makes me mad when I touch his butt knowing he doesn’t like it but I can’t help myself I wish he get over it and just let me I let him touch me all over my body it’s not fair to me and he always say go get a new man that will let you touch his butt he might be gay anyway I said no I only want to touch your butt lol

    • YOUR NOT TOUCHING MY FUCKINGN ASS PERIOD NONE OF YOU EVER

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