I dated a guy 10+ years, anyways I broke up with him 2 years ago BC of some issues. We came back in contact back in June. We discussed getting back together, But he says he wants to after he works on himself. What does that mean? Should I wait? He says he still loves me. Could he be wanting to better himself for me? Is it OK to write him a message and explain how I still love him? Or should I just leave him alone?