A year ago, I had a flirtation with a male colleague. It developed into more, but then I wanted a relationship and he was wishy washy. I got over it, and ended up getting a new position. Over the summer, he was texting sometimes, hinting around at getting together. I was out of town and didn't end up seeing him. Then he got a promotion, and I now see him again. He was pretty aloof, but has gotten over it. We even talk sometimes, text, and joke around. Lately, he has started standing close to me, teasing me, and he brings me my mail at work. I know, this is lame for me to ask, but I feel I don't have much perspective with this guy. I told a friend and she said "make no mistake, he has always been crazy about you." I'm asking for insight because A) I'm not sure if I am sliding back into my old feelings for him and B) I get comfused thinking about a year ago and today, blurring them. I swear I'm an adult!