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Well I don't ask a girl to go drink coffee with me because I don't drink coffee, but that doesn't really answer your question.Now for men, rejection isn't really about the ridicule, it's more about the guy's self confidence. Some guys have to build it up before they can get the courage to even approach, this is usually due to them being rejected before.A guy's confidence is like tempered glass, the first hit may leave just a tiny fracture, but each hit after that makes it more and more fragile. In my case, my first crush was like a sledgehammer, it took me at least a year to get over it, and then another year to get up the courage to try again.
Answer: not sophisticated enough... you might get such an invitation from a class president or sports captain or guy much olderfor the rest of them think it easier to ask you to join in working on their car... ugh.Until your contemporaries grow up, you'll have to invite yourself to something they mentioned in conversation... be sure you're interested in it, else your boredom will kill this seed intended to grow a relationship
Well there can be two reasons. First is as simple as that the guy can be shy.The second is he is scared of rejection. Well, it is not exactly rejection but the complications of rejection that we are scared of. Personally for me, i am scared i would loose good friendship if she rejects me. If a guy doesn't ask you, do not hesitate to ask him, because i am that kind of guy and i know what that guy is feeling. Do not let that person go, because they actually care for you
How would he know, that you have no friends? (Which is obviously not true, not even shit friends? :DOther thing is, that i don't drink coffee.But i think i would fear the rejection in this case, that she refused my invitation to just drink a coffee together..
"Even if he is rejected who is she going to tell?"https://i.imgur.com/bUfWr7Y.gif
Leon... one of my favorite movies.
@MrOracle I just read up on it, and it sounds really good! I might see if I can pick it up. :)
Maybe he doesn't like coffee. Tea on the other hand. I could share a cuppa with anybody
Why don't girls ask boy's to coffee? Women could ask guys out just as easily, yet they don't. Pisses me off.
cuz I could ask her to get chik fil a with me instead
Good idea and maybe because its too short of a time
Rejection fucking sucks, we eventually get numb to it but in the beginning phase of starting to like girls, rejection is some embarrassing stuff!
My crush always says she has no friends but her Twitter makes it obvious that she actually does have friends.
If she already has no friends then she is the one with less to lose. Expecting others to take action is a good way for nothing to happen. Get up in the saddle little miss.
If you know she has no friends then I suppose that minimizes the risk, but you never know she might get some friends in the future and they'll laugh about how she rejected you.
Well, I wouldn't be asking a girl out, who had no friends
Why don't you ask him?
Why don't you ask a boy to have a coffee?
He might be shy, you can make the first move too
Why don't you ask? You've got nothing to lose.
Because he doesn't want to?
So, you want to come round for coffee sometime?
why dont you ask?
Not everyone likes coffee.
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