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I would look in on some women I was interested in but not not quite sure if they were 'right' sometimes I forgot I had them on 'maybe' so I'd go back and see yeah not quite right so maybe when I'm feeling more confident I'd try to write something to them.Also I might visit a woman's profile hoping she might notice me and check me out and maybe say something to me. Women get so many more messages than guys get her messaging me would be like getting hit by lightning and winning the lottery.
i sometimes do this by mistake, unless you are talking about me >.< ( that would be a weird coincidence) but sometimes i go to a girls profile and like her but am to shy to initiate a message, even if we match and like each other i will go to her profile several times to message her then anxiety kicks in and hope she messages first just so i know she likes to get to know me.
So meaning that you want her to notice you just to see whether she is interested?
pretty much, i don't want to message her even something like hey and get rejected or abuse, both have happened, i would not be bothered about rejection if it didn't take forever to get the confidence to say hey.
If you don't pay for upgrades then you can't always keep track. I have done that to several women. Sometimes I remember why I didn't message them. Also I have done it where I needed to reread her post before deciding.
It's annoying. And honestly, I've said something a few times before. Most times they didn't have much to say.
Have you gotten any 'one liner message' such as "hey, hi, what's up"
All the time.
I find it to be hypocritical when they complain about we girls, not replying. As you can see, there is an obvious reason why we don't reply.
Exactly. A little effort goes a long way.
I don't really care, as long as they don't harass me. I message them if I saw they came to my profile a few times asking how they are. They don't respond sometimes, other times they do.
I do that when I like them, but there's nothing in their profile to start a conversation with
Perhaps you may greet them in a general way then?
No point, it'll get deleted without being read. Most of my messages get that treatment as it is.
Omg that's so extreme. I usually read and check out his profile after that then I would decide whether I am interested or not.
Me too, but some people apparently don't even have time to read a couple of lines!
hard to tell. you'll have to call them out. shy men are being labeled as stalkers more n more. why do you think girls whine and complain about how there's no good men out there?
Wait, does it tell you that? Because that puts me in a horrible position.
I wouldn't care! But I don't have one so don't ask haha!
I feel like they might be masturbating to my pictures.
LOL LOL sometimes I feel the same way!
no point in talking to women here. three girls that i liked i talked to them and none talked back to me.
If you're not being harassed, I don't see the reason to be bothered to the point of blocking or something.
I have, but where I live I have no choice
They are perverts
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