Because i never met a guy like him. We have history and he never would commit to me. I know he has to care deep down inside. He can be such a dick at times and he acts like he doesn't care i just don't ubderstand i know I'm the only girl that tried that hard and chased him that long. He was perfect in the beggining. I just want him to realize what he did to me is wrong. And i want him to feel towards me before he cared so much and now it's like he doesn't at all.
😧 okay well then stay with him...By your response, this story sounds more one-sided and you're not telling it in full. My answer was only based on a question. You must have done something really bad to him in order to make him feel this extremely numb towards you. There's other scenarios I can play around with by the facts you've laid out for me, but 3 things I can think of right now are: Betrayal or you've slowed down on the sex department; or both. Then we got a coward tactic some men uses in order to push you far away that you'll give up sooner or later and break up with him rather than him, so he doesn't look like he's the bad guy (usually he's no longer interested).Until you are willing to share when this triggered or how it happened, then this community is unable to provide the answers you might want to do or hear.
I haven't done anything i never cheated or betrayed
I can't imagine how you must be feeling from your confusion to frustration. I know this is difficult for you to do, but you really need to let this one go. I feel like you're just talking to a wall. Honey, you are still young to deal with this guy's drama. You willing to put your life on hold for someone that just won't light up? This guy acts like a damn child. Do you want a partner or to baby someone for the rest of your life?The only part that would suck is if you decided to move on with your life and this guy realizes too late, but just remember, it wasn't your fault. He made this mess by acting out, so never blame yourself when the time comes.
Yeah I've been messed up for awhile about it my heart was set on him and i don't wanna let him go but he's just not trying he acts like he cares and sometimes gets jealous but I don't know. Ill always want him. He just said he doesn't wanna commit to anybody but he always acted like he did with me. I'm just really heartbroken
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We have a lot of history but he is like a dick half the time now he wasn't always like that in the beginning he was perfect. I just never met a guy so careless and heartless before. he just doesn't care in general he treats everyone the same. He said he doesn't make anyone a priority. And he wouldn't commit to me. We are friends now but i still have a little feelings towards him. I know I'm the only girl that chased him and tried hard for a long time. I'm just trying to get through to him to let him understand what he did isn't okay. He just seems like he's not scared to loose me or anybody and i don't understand why i never met a guy like him before.